Wow! I like your post because it looks like we use similar strategy.
By the way, here's what I have lately discovered when it comes to using my mindset for instantly sexually attracting women around me.
Before I share with you my 3 life-changing tips, I'd like to tell you that what's actually made me make this life-changing experiment was the fact that I was deeply stuck in a huge approach anxiety because of two important reasons:
1. Everytime I went out I was under a huge pressure of having to approach women in certain ways that I learned from different seduction gurus
2. Thanks to the bestselling book "The Passion Test: The Effortless Path To Discovering Your Destiny" I got a light bulb moment realizing that I didn't really enjoy the ways of approaching women that I mentioned under 1.
So, the problem under 2. was solved because I happily realized that in order for me to lead and fully enjoy a passionate and fulfilled life I have to focus on doing only the things that I really and truly enjoy. In other words, I have to focus my attention and energy on following and living my top passions in life if I truly want to be happy in life.
And, my top passion or my passion No.1 is effortlessly sexually attracting super hot women. Period.
Now, I still had to find the solution to my problem under 1. which was related to that huge pressure of having to approach women in certain ways that I learned from some seduction gurus and pickup artists.
The good news is that luckily I soon found out the solution to my problem under 1. Here's how I found it.
One day I ended up on YouTube and quite 'accidentally' I found a video about Bruce Lee but that video was nothing to do with Bruce Lee's martial arts stuff.
Funnily enough, this video was full of awesomely inspiring and empowering Bruce Lee's words of wisdom that literally blew up my mind. Then, apart from that video I also found a few other Bruce Lee videos where he was acting in movies and while watching them I also found a couple of life-changing words of wisdom.
So, here are the three Bruce Lee's quotes (below under a), b) and c)) that literally transformed my whole dating game and changed my life forever:
a) "Be like water my friend. When you put water into the cup, it becomes the cup. When you put water into the glass, it becomes the glass.....Be formless. Be shapeless. Empty your mind. Be like water my friend."
b) "If you try to remember, you will lose. So, empty your mind...."
c) "The arts of fighting without fighting."
Man, these 3 Bruce Lee's quotes literally changed my entire life because I had that life-changing light bulb moment immediately after I understood the right messages of all three quotes for improving my dating life.
So, here're my lessons learned thanks to these 3 Bruce Lee's quotes:
a) I realized that the huge pressure of having to approach women in certain ways UNNATURALLY caused a huge fear inside me before I even went out and let alone when being close to the opportunity to approach a woman in a public place.
So, I was finally liberated from that huge fear by understanding that I should always EMPTY MY MIND before entering such situations where I could potentially achieve my goal.
b) Based on the quote "If you try to remember, you will lose" I straightaway realized that I was actually losing in my dating game before I even went out because I was forcing myself to remember those certain ways of approaching women. So, that was instantly another light bulb moment for me that just once again confirmed that I should always EMPTY MY MIND before entering any new situations where I potentially might bump into the opportunity of achieving my desired goal, which is in this case, effortlessly sexually attracting super hot women.
c) And, "The arts of fighting without fighting" was another huge life-changing light bulb moment that put a large ecstatic smile on my face because I soon understood that I should finally forget about consciously picking up or chasing women like a mad, stupid robot and instead, adopt the mindset of having no intention to approach and pick up any woman at all everytime I am about to go out.
In short, Bruce Lee's success formula in the context of approaching and attracting women would be:
"The arts of pickup without pickup"
So, man, I was so super excited because understanding these three Bruce Lee's quotes helped me find the solution to my problem 1. which was that huge pressure, you remember? Man, my life entirely changed and I became as light as feather (with no pressure any longer) because now I had all the pieces of my dating puzzles put in the right places.
So, my pieces of the puzzle or the lessons learned were as follows:
1) Always enjoy whatever you do if you really want to lead a passionate and happy life.
2) Empty your mind if you really want to become successful at achieving whatever you want to achieve.
3) You can effortlessly and super successfully pick up any woman only if you have no intention of picking her up.
So, one evening I decided to implement all these lessons by going out with no intention to approach or pick up any girl or woman at all. Man, I was feeling so blessed and ecstatically happy as if I had just been released from the prison where I was locked for 20 years. So, I was feeling so relieved because I got to enjoy my FREEDOM again!!
Anyway, what I did decide though was that I was going to practice becoming more comfortable with my own sexual desires or better say, becoming more comfortable with fearlessly sharing my true sexual desires with women. Because I knew that I still had to do some work on overcoming my shyness over freely sexually expressing my true desires in front of women who truly sexually excite me.
So, I decided to go to the Argentinian tango place where I was at once before because I knew that spending some time in there and just enjoyably and fearlessly staring at the sexy parts of the Argentinian tango female dancers were definitely going to help me boost my natural sexual arousal around women the same way it did help me when I visited the same place purely as an observer last time.
I stayed in there about 20-30 minutes and left the place. In the meantime, I got myself a free pizza and then headed towards the main square in my city.
When I got to the main square, I spotted an extremely hot young blonde girl who was standing with her female friend both waiting for their tram to come. So, as I was crossing the road and approaching them, I decided I am going to pretend to be waiting for my tram at the same stop.
Man, here comes the shocking truth of my lessons learned, now in action.
As I was approaching the blonde girl closer and closer, she soon started very playfully smiling at me without stopping most likely for the fact that she really sensed and felt my true natural vibes that were giving off me being very relaxed and very playful too (as far as I remember I had that cheeky playful almost unnoticeable smile on my face when approaching her) because I had no intention and no pressure of having to approach her on one side, and she could also feel my sexual vibes that I managed to built up a few minutes earlier on the other side.
Man, that was the BINGO!!
I just succeeded at making a super hot girl who was probably 20 years younger than me instantly sexually attracted like CRAZY!
I'm saying CRAZY! because man, she started heavily hitting on me that's sexually teasing me for the next 20 minutes or so, and I was barely opening my mouth. Funnily enough I can't even remember what exactly I said to her immediately after I approached her. Anyway, it was probably something very playful and laidback like: "So, how long you've been waiting for me here?"
Anyway, if you want to learn more details on this miraculous event, you have to go to my personal blog at brunobabic dot com and find the blog post titled "The Arts Of Pickup Without Pickup: A Secret Little Combo Of Two Simple Things That A Guy Can Do To Instantly Seduce A Woman".
So, to sum up, here are the 3 life-changing tips that I have announced at the beginning of my reply to this thread:
1. Know what your top passion is. In other words, make sure that effortlessly sexually attracting hot women is really one of your top passions.
2. Once you are crystal clear that this is really one of your top passions, make sure that you follow and live that top passion in a natural and enjoyable way. Here I also mean working on improving some areas in your dating game that you know you have to improve like I did with practicing becoming more comforable with sharing my true sexual desires with women.
3. Empty your mind immediately before you are about to enter a new opportunity to meet women because it will help you:
a) instantly liberate yourself from any fears, worries and approach anxiety to name only a few negative feelings, and
b) act or perform to the best of your abilities or to your fullest potential because you will be totally focus on what's going on in your life right now or this moment. In other words, it will help you unleash your superhero's intelligence from within you or if you like, it will help you say the right words at the right time without having to memorize anything of that well in advance at all.
Hope that you have enjoyed reading my reply to this thread and that it will help you improve your dating game. If you feel that my experience and tips might also help somebody else, please share this post with them.
Bruno Babic
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