what part of NC do you reside in Rockhound? Gaming a bartender while she's working is not advisable. The reason is due to all the interruptions that will take place. It would be like you gaming a regular girl and obstacles keep barging in. I would game her the next time you guys hang out, you can do it with others around. Run a few personality tests on her, get her intrigued and then ask to meet you at coffee shop so you two can talk some more. That way, she'll view this as a "non-date" and she's driving on her on. She'll feel more comfortable with this.

From there, if you have game and she finds you interesting, then bounce to another location and the rest is history. Game on.