hey

With direct game openers what should your body language say. should you still talk from over your shoulder??

thanks to anyone that can help

Over the shoulder is generally a more indirect body language. You need to go right up to her.

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Thanks
i will field test it and see how it go's

how bout using a direct opener on facebook...
there's this chick i really like and i have a few ways to hang with her, but i'd rather get to know her a bit on facebook first. the only thing is i dont know how to hit her up

Don't do it...

Direct works because it shows you as ballsy and confident... and thus it is best suited to daygame.
It takes some cojones to walk to a girl in the street and tell her she's attractive while looking her in the eyes. Girls will appreciate that, and it does not happen to them often.

Do it on facebook and the effect is completely lost though. You become one of a hundred horny nobodys who have messaged her recently to tell her she looks good... Facebook doesn't take balls.

Agreed.

"I would rather" is code for "Im more comfortable with/not confidant enough" and is a clear enough indication that you are on the wrong path.

This is a disturbing trend on the forum that most people do not seem to have what it takes to be great. I dont mean are not BORN with it, anyone can learn this stuff. Im talking about missing the drive necessary to achieve greatness. The worst part is that most people on the forum ENCOURAGE this type of behavior, as they themselves are not pushing themselves to the fullest of their abilities.

So here is my challenge to you: Be a man. Grab your balls in one hand and use the other to open the door of your car. GO meet up with her, tell her she's cute, you wanna get to know her. Look her in the eyes and show her you appreciate her beauty. YOU ARE NON NEEDY. You do NOT need any girl, a man does not have time to obsess over a girl he is not fucking. However you are a man that loves women, that genuinely enjoys their femininity. Go and appreciate her!

I wasn't ripping on you specifically btw, Im just responding to this trend that needs to stop. You want direct game? its very simple. Act on the way you feel. Thats LITERALLY all If you are feeling nervous, it is normal! GO and tell her!

"Hi! Im kind of nervous right now but GOD you are adorable! Who are you and why arnt you my girlfriend?" said with a big "I own the world" smile and strong eye contact, this could go a very long way!

Keep in touch, Im happy to help you as long as you need it. PM me if you have more questions or post on this board. I want to know how it goes.

Love and lots of it
TheMack

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