Don't use an opener. If you're thinking about an opener, then you're already in the wrong frame of mind. If you're out at bars, with a list of openers saved in your cell phone that will cover every conceivable female in every kind of set (I used to do this), then you're fucking doomed. Or at least you're going to be batting for the same average as the rest of the AFCs who are on the pull.

Instead of thinking, "How should I open this girl?" you should ask yourself, "How can I show this girl I'm not intimidated by her?" Then do that, whatever it is.

A personal anecdote to illustrate this: Sat night, a friend dared me to approach the hottest girl in the club, who was wearing a sexy nurse costume. I stepped right up to her and said, "I haven't had a physical in a while. Are you qualified to do that for me?"

A silly line, but it's the first thing that popped into my head, and I said it without a quaver in my voice, with only a slight smile and with constant eye contact. She loved it.

The beauty of this approach is that it works everywhere you go. And it doesn't require cleverness. If no line jumps into your head, then it's as simple as holding eye contact and introducing yourself, using a slow, deep vocal tone. If you freeze up after the introduction, just fucking go direct. Show her that you are unashamed of your sexual desire.

Of course, this only works if you are not intimidated by her looks, if you are not ashamed of your desires. And my advice would be to fake it till you make it. Because trust me when I say that when you approach women with this kind of congruency between your mind and your actions, you become virtually unfazed by rejection.

When im in that playfu asshole frame of mind i go like:
"Go fuck yourself(with a huge grin on my face)
this always starts a swearing battle.It puts a nice vibe between me and the HB.
She`s like
"Fuck you ugly motherfucker "
"No you you stuck up brat "

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When you realize that rejection doesn`t mean shit you`ll try to find a way how to kick your own ass for being an idiot.

Is just being in the moment.

I like that!

It's an excellent way to frame you mind. Rather than "how can i open her" your mindset is "How can i show you I'm not intimidated by her".

This really gets down to the crux of what you are ACTUALLY trying to do when your opening her. She's the hottest girl at the bar yet you are infront of her chatting showing that you are completely carefree of her in your environment; thus, not intimidated.

Good stuff bud!

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B.Stinson