Just let me start off by saying that sorry if you see this in another forum section. I just want to get as many answers and tips as possible.



Okay so my friend invited me to go to knotts scary farm with him and his girlfriend. his girlfriend had a friend for me that i started talking to but she hasnt replied since i last messaged her on facebook( friday). now all of a sudden some other guy is going and my friend that invited me told me that hes trying to get at the girl i was taking. what do i do? please help as soon as possible, i need to talk to her and make her my date not his by saturday( when we are going) all answers are wanted.


Basically what do i need to do in order to prevent this guy from stealing my date, since i never really have talked to her before

The other guy is probably a puss who'll kiss her ass all night long, and buy her shit. Just chill, don't be all clingy - if she takes to him then leave it be, don't stand around like a stooge hoping for scraps.

How close are you with this friend of yours? iF ur real close tell him to make up some bs excuse to this other guy that you guys aren't going after all lol

I say leave it be, don't CHASE it'll make you look needy, and even if she accepts u chasing her she'll become disinterest with the quickness. Go pursue other women dude, that way she wont seem all that important to you and when you're around her you wont seem so desperate. If she likes the other dude, her loss.

the guy who invited me is my bestfriend, but the guy trying to steal my date is close with my bestfriend as well, bottom line is that im closer but my bestfriend wouldnt do that. the reason i want her is because she's cute and plus its in 4 days, and i dont think there's any time to find a girl cute and willing to pay 51$

My advice, go there with anticipation of having fun. Keep your expectations in check, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't least you didn't waste your night pinning for her - she has to decide for herself if she likes you - she may or may not like the person you are, why stress over something you've got no control over. Despite what this site may tell you, you can't MAKE another person like you.

The best way of winning her over is by changing your expectations as I mentioned. This way you wont stress and are likely to let your personality show, rather than trying to be someone different in hopes you'll somehow impress her.