Hey what's up guys? In the past week i've shown a lot of confidence and gamed a lot of girls pretty well...but it was girls that i previously met in class or through other friends..etc. I would normally feel in complete control of the conversation. The worst thing is to not predict the dying of a topic and transition before the usually uncomfortable silence(for the girl that is).

Do you guys have any canned "good"questions when you're simply blanking? I'm going to field test it, but i'm curious if others do it. Idk..i'm thinking along the lines of "do you play an instrument?", which can lead into music...type of music..blah blah. if you guys have canned questions that u think are interesting lets see em. Thanks for reading guys!

Anything about themselves really. But you have to pay attention to what she says. If she is really engaged about a certain topic, go back to it. Say you were talking about motorcycles and the conversation drifted to surfing. If she doesn't like surfing (I would leave) you can go back to motorcycles. "whats the best part about riding a motorcycle?" you can always attach again to the end of a question if you already talked about it.

If she hasn't been hooked by anything (probably where this question arises from) ask her about things you like. If you can prove you have other things you do, its a DHV and if she likes it to you have rapport. If she looks tense, have a few stress busters(techniques that reduce stress) in the can that you can show her. If she looks relaxed ask her how she can be so relaxed, ask her to give you tips on how to relax.

*story time*
Yesterday I was out and my goal was to get a girl to paint my nails black. When I got some one to do it we talked about how difficult it is. (It's an acquired skill) We she then mentioned a specific pattern called a "french tip" but she couldn't remember the name. I remember hearing about it way back when, and she was surprised that I got the name right.


If you go out with nail polish on, ask her if it looks good. If she is wearing any tell her she did a good job and if she impresses you, you have a job for her (painting your nails).

If you know a little about alot of things you can talk with anyone about almost anything.

When conversation dies just jump into a routine, thats what they are there for incase coversation suddenly drops. Questions aren't bad but if your suddenly just asking questions like an interview it shows your desperate to keep conversation going and that shows your needy. Just start talking you don't have to realy worry about connecting everything to a previous topic. or if you do ask questions try to tell about yourself then have a question that can relates to what you just said. like:

"when i was little i totaly got forced into playing the piano, it was horrible not that its not a great instument but It would have been so cool to learn a guitar and be like jimmie hendrix, you don't play a insturment do you?"

now your not only giving her just playing an instrument, but she can conncect to childhood, jimmie hendrix, guitar, piano, or music in general.

It starts the conversation and expands it, then the question basicly brings her into it .

Lets say the answers no i don't play an instrument and she doesn't key into any of the topics you have thrown out, just neg her:

"Your totaly music challenged arn't you, i totaly thought you would be artistic."

now she has a reason to talk about something to try and get back your intrest.

My favorite thing is to talk about amusement park rides. What kind of ride is your favorite? What do you like so much about <whatever she says>? What feeling do you get from that ride? What else gives you that feeling? Tell stories about amusement parks(particularly if its a DHV). Also, if she tels you her favorite ride is a merry go round or something lame, you could neg/c&f her "Wow, I can't believe how BORING you are! We would never get along well together!" ::turn back to her::

If you run out of things to say you can pretty much say anything and make a conversation of it.

So do you have any pets? Because you look like you would be a cat person.

Just pick a topic and explain what you think she would choose/do.

So what kind of car do you drive? You remind me of a girl that would drive a truck. (You seem kinda manly).

I agree highly with this. Excellent for leading into a neg, or DHV. Excellent range to pick and lead direction, keep things in your frame, and not show intrest.

Also i would mix it up (assuming the chance comes more then once), first time ask a leading question like those listed above, second time go into a routine (cold reading/plam read/magic trick)

And sometimes you get so zoned in on your set or target you dont realize what is goin on around you. Maybe the place is emptying out (bounce to another place), maybe someone is dancing like a moron (point it out, or offer to join the fun). So take a look around, shift your weight away (like you might walk away at any point), then jump into a observational discussion, a routine, or a leading question (i will take credit for coining the term 'leading question'...it will be known as a question used to start or continue a conversation while not displaying intrest and allowing for you to maintain your frame.)

Hope this helps

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