Hi guys, asking for guidness about a neg I used on a girl (don't really know where in forum to place this topic, but I hope im right

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First I made a quite smart opener and we began to chat about nothing.. And I told her something like "please, take another cookie, (we were standing at a cookie-plate) its so fun, because you talk at the same time as you eat. (And this was sopposed to be a neg)
The hard part was that she took this quite hard and stopped talk to me and I had no courage to continue a chat.
So what would you guys do in a situation like this?
Is this the way everyone reacts after a neg?
~Sorry for wrong spelled words

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This was also one of my first times using openers, negs and stuff like that.
Have a great day!
btw, she's a truly 9/10, even thou she eat cookies
