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| Ragnad | PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 12:21 am | |
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Location: MEXICO | | I'm an aspiring PUA newbie (AFC haha). Saturday night I went to a club with some friends and there were sets all around so I started with the jealous GF opener on a few of them (girls who gave me IOI's before the approach) but the thing is the music was VERY loud and I had to yell in their ears leaning over and breaking eye contact so it felt kind of forced and didn't go well. Girls would just turn their back on me or gave me just a few words in response because they had to yell too, so I crashed and burned everytime.
disaster !
Any advice?
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| JSK 252 | PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 2:07 am | |
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Posts: 19 | | Honestly the best opener in thst situation is to just go with , Hi my name is... because they will defo know what you are on about in a noisy area. Going with something more complex is impossible to communicate properly in a noisy place!
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| DrCooter | PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 2:48 am | |
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Location: Minnesota | | I don’t know if this helps you but it seem to work for me. I usually just hang back and act like I own the space I’m in. When the opportunity presents itself with eye contact or look from across the bar I just wave at the girls to come over like I have something I have to show them.
I can’t tell you why it works but Its done wonders for me. Usually I can stay right where I am and it looks like the girls are gaming me. Just relax, smile and wave them over like you have to show them a magic trick or something. No words needed.
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| alphamale_16 | PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 5:13 pm | |
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Location: Spain | | In louds clubs the best thing is to say simple things playing direct game, work dance staff and kino.
For example, you butty bump the girl, start dancing with her and say something like:" You are so hot when you dance". As you dance you play direct game: ask her name, compliment... just show very confident.
You scalate kino as you dance and if you see you can k-close there or otherwise you isolate her taking her outside or somewhere
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| skills360 | PostPosted: Thu Aug 25, 2011 3:11 am | |
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| Ragnad | PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2011 7:02 am | |
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Location: MEXICO | | Thanx for the advice...I'll try everything next time and get better results
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| MynameisFisher | PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2011 7:44 am | |
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Posts: 494 | | This is anything but disaster. You have learned that in loud clubs you can't rely much on your verbal communication. How is this a disaster?
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| doake | PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2011 5:30 pm | |
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Location: St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada | | yeah im having the exact same issue...
i live in a city with about 200,000 people, not that small, but definitely not big. we've got some good nightlife, but its mostly loud clubs. im decent in quieter settings where i can talk to people, but ive never been much for approaching in loud noise. any suggestions on technique for helping here?
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| skills360 | PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2011 5:35 pm | |
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Website: http://www.dancefloorseduction.com
Location: South Florida | | From my upcoming best selling book lol:
15.- Asking the girl to dance: Do not ask girls if they want to dance, and if they say no do not beg, and worst after she said no asking her friends, what do you think they are going to say. NO TALKING! NO CONVERSATION, NO PICK UP LINES, NO OPENERS, NO OFFERING DRINKS, SPECIALLY ON LADIES NIGHT (free drinks) _________________ Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
http://www.dancefloorseduction.com
Dancefloor/Club game youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction
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| MynameisFisher | PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2011 6:15 pm | |
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Posts: 494 | | Yeah skills has a point. I rarely talk at clubs. Go straight to the dancefloor and pick one. After you've escalated enough and think you got the target then maybe go to the bar or outside or anywhere. From there it depends on what you want. I usually don't do SNLs so I k and #close them but it is of course possible to take her home if you escalated right.
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