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I was just wondering,how often does the direct approach of simply intorducing yourself work? Ive been steping up my attempts to get over my approach anxiety and i want to know if anyonpe has had any success with this?
Don't let anyone tell you differently - this opener is just as effective as anything else out there. I k-closed a supermodel last night just using "hey whats up, I like your dress, my name is Brah". You just have to be prepared to MOVE THE CONVERSATION further after "hi, whats up". She may respond to this opener very well, be interested in you and all, but if you can't move the conversation along and keep her interested, you're in trouble.
the absolute worst is this:
brah: Hi, I'm brah!
Allison: Nice to meet you, I'm allison!
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brah: so... uhh... *cough*, you come around here often?
FAIL!!!!!!!!
tldr; follow up your "hi" opener with something to talk about.