| Here's what i don't do: I don't use openers, they are often to random for the group to relate to, or if you use an opener, it's differant then the ones you learn from books.
Here's what I DO do: I try to be humerous, and the social center of anything, this is really the best way. In Fact, your whole personallity should be based around you being really ALPHA. Instead of opening with openers, open with negs, for ex. there is this one girl in my math class that always gets in the way of notes.. i say, "hey, HB8, can you move over... a little more... o.k., now start moving your head 45 degrees northeast, o.k. good. now keep it there." it's funny, and what you should try to do is be cockyfunny. also Lead the guys, and the girls will follow.
what wiggy said is true, just let your friends introduce you. remember, most importantly in high school, first impressions me EVERYTHING.
Hope i have Helped.
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