Let me start of by saying. I used to consider myself a pretty good pick up artist when I was in Sydney. It came to a point where alot of girls in my social circle would always refer to me as the player. Life was good. However being in uni and all I partied too much. Messed up my academics, which pissed the parentals off and they sucked me to Adelaide to live with them to get my shit straight basically. Ever since, my whole mindset has been destroyed. I have been dealing with depression, family arguments etc. Not good stuff. Because of that, my game has taken a beating, I cant approach as I am always in a bad mood. Im just not the same guy. If a girl looks at me ill just break eye contact. However over the past couple of days ive started to warm up to the idea JUST A LITTLE. Got some good conversations going with a few HBs but no number closes. Wanted to warm up to it after 3 months out of it. I can afford to do that because these girls were in my classes. However today, I figured it was the last straw and that i need some help from people who have been in similar situations. There is this girl in my philosophy lecture. I sat next to her once and just AA hit me like a train and that hasnt happened over the past year or so. And then again today she was walking up the stairs by herself. I cant even rate this girl. She looks like no girl i have ever seen. Shes just adorable. And today, I choked. Knowing very well if it was Sydney and I had my old mindset I would have gone up to her in seconds. But this time it hurt, I just couldnt do it. I wanted to tear my hair out and wondered WHY can I not get my head straight. This girl is my target until i get her haha. Unfortunately easter holidays just started so uni is off for 18 days. But I really want to build myself back up to what I was. So yeah has anyone every been in such a predicament? How the fuck do you get out of it?

cheers

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dressed in majestic splendor and touched by the flames of eternal fire...

Hey man. I know where you're coming from. In High School I was a total loser. I made good grades and got picked on. I was friends with the popular girls but mainly to help them academically. My last two years of High School my parents split and I got depressed. Got heavy into drugs and made friends with some trashy people. Got kicked out of school and was moved out of state. I used this time to do some soul searching. Honestly, it really helped me mentally. It didn't take to much time til I understood that all things have a reason for happening. Don't look at it like it's a mess, YOUR A PUA! This is a challenge. Like I say life's a dick, when it gets hard say 'fuck it'.

Hope I helped.
NastyNate

Bro really I don't think any part of PUA is your problem your problem is that you have no happiest and your lacking a positive mind, without the two pretty much any person or PUA is useless, I say if I were you I would take time off to find yourself and find and rebuild happiness... if your parents are breaking up or arguing about your grades take time out to fix it schedule time aside for school, you can still have fun trust me... best advice I can give you is fix your life and everything is will fall in place!

Maybe put a little bit more of yourself and a little bit less pua in it and find a girl that can make you really feel better in long term?

(not quantity but quality this time?)

Sometimes it's also nice if you have somebody where you can rely on a and can support you a little bit instead of every weekend another girl.

Because i think be happy and feel good about yourself is more important than get laid with another chick every weekend.