okay some mediumcute waitress ive seen a couple of times.
she says "hello" i say "you work too much." she says "yeeeaah" and starts to drop a few selfpity-sentences i dont let her finish.

how do you go from this point on?

Do I really want to let her talk with a "ohhh its a hard living"-vibe. Maybe its good to let her do that for a few secs because its a little bit being understood. maybe its just unnecessary bad vibe. how do you approach this?

a way to get through her "mood" to leave her open for your game.


I'd move away from the "negative emo" topic and move to a conversation thats gonna help you and keep her distracted from her current situation in life.

pua: (sarcastic yet smiling)
Always so cheery arent we? (meaning her)

her:
well blah blah (more than likely she'll say something that further solidifies that shes sad or whatever dosen't matter)

Heres the beauty of this situation: She still has a job to do.

pua: (cut her off)
Well lets make a deal: You get me (whatever alcoholic drink you were gonna order) I'll put a genuine smile on you face? deal?

pos. 1
If she smiles right then call it...
pua:
"Damn I'm good I didn't even try. "
let her get your booze then open up with a trick or something to "wow" her or hell even if you fuck it up try to be funny like you don't care that you're fucking it up. She'll think its funny and have a smile on her face.

pua:
"I see a smile, I win."

Then simply run regular game on her.

pos2
If not she'll come back with your drink.

pua:
"alright looks like its my turn..."
Then just open up with a trick or something to "wow" her or hell even if you fuck it up try to be funny like you don't care that you're fucking it up. She'll think its funny and have a smile on her face.

pua:
"I see a smile, I win"
Even though it was a deal not a competition, she'll see you w/ more value.

Then just run regular game on her at this point.

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