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Grape
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Really... there's a reason she shit tested you..
You were realllyy really incongruent with your words bro.

Seriously, don't spaz out on a girl with WTF!!! I WAS ONLY TRYING TO TALK TO YOU.

That's AFC. Now you know. (:

Would a high value guy care at ALL if some.. girl.. was being playful with YOU'RE NOT AMAZING!!

Nope, he'd laugh, because high value guys don't spaz out. instead they have fun when they can and he'd say, "Dude. I'm sooo coool. I'm like a drug. Once you meet me you can't get enough of me." with a joking smile on his face.

This is also congruent with your first post with "Maybe you can tell me how amazing I am."

You obviously weren't amazing when you spazzed out on her.


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This brings me to another very IMPORTANT topic.
Don't just copy and paste canned material and lines. LIVE a life in which you would say such things.
BE the high value guy. Don't just say it because it WILL show through other things like body language and tonality. Thus comes the shit tests.
These lines are all about building up your personality into becoming such a guy.
Think about this. And keep this in mind (r)AFCs. It may be the most important thing you've read on PU so far.
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"ME: Hey, I'm new on this site but I havent gotten too many responses. Maybe you can tell me how amazing I am. lol

hb8:Maybe you should take not getting responses as a hint as to how amazing YOU ARE NOT!

Me: WTF? Why would you say that to me? I was only trying to talk to you? "

Have you even read or learned ANYTHING about PUA at all? You opened with a DLV (a pretty big one at that --> reads: people ignore me and I am seeking validation), and then when she got playful you flipped your shit. If a girl told me I wasn't amazing you can believe me that I would not say what you said.

How about, as a better opener, something more like:

'Hm.. your profile says you like people who are amazing and don't even know it... well I guess you wouldn't like me then, because I'm well aware of how amazing I am 8)'

And if she says that you're not amazing, the set is far from lost, my friend, so do ANYTHING other than get upset and whine

Oh, and if it makes you feel better, she was full of shit with that league stuff. Nobody is out of your league. All being good-looking does for a man is help him build attraction. Meaning if you're not super good looking, all you have to do is spend more time building attraction than your good looking brethren. Just remember, when building attraction, try to DHV and neg, not DLV and insult ;)[/b]
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yeah dude. Its not you. its her. She is sitting behind a computer thinking "lets fuck with this guy" and she hit you hard. I recon that you forget about her. She doesnt deserve you. She coulda had the pleasure of being sarged but she now has to be hit on my amature jocks. Dont worry about it dude.
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Really... there's a reason she shit tested you..
You were realllyy really incongruent with your words bro.

Seriously, don't spaz out on a girl with WTF!!! I WAS ONLY TRYING TO TALK TO YOU.

That's AFC. Now you know. (:

Would a high value guy care at ALL if some.. girl.. was being playful with YOU'RE NOT AMAZING!!

Nope, he'd laugh, because high value guys don't spaz out. instead they have fun when they can and he'd say, "Dude. I'm sooo coool. I'm like a drug. Once you meet me you can't get enough of me." with a joking smile on his face.

This is also congruent with your first post with "Maybe you can tell me how amazing I am."

You obviously weren't amazing when you spazzed out on her.


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This brings me to another very IMPORTANT topic.
Don't just copy and paste canned material and lines. LIVE a life in which you would say such things.
BE the high value guy. Don't just say it because it WILL show through other things like body language and tonality. Thus comes the shit tests.
These lines are all about building up your personality into becoming such a guy.
Think about this. And keep this in mind (r)AFCs. It may be the most important thing you've read on PU so far.
If people read my post, I would actually smile.
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That girl is full crap, Psycho. No girl says that if they are Mentally Healthy. Why would you care what that litle bitch said?
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The PUAs speak the truth. I'm still new to the shit-test, but here is some stuff I can see you made wrong:

1: online-sarging: As many have pointed out, online-sarging is not how you learn/play the game. Clubs, and social gatherings are the PUA's dojo.

Because you kick ass at Guitar Hero doesn't mean you could take on BB King in RL, right?

2: You, pretty much, auditioned for this girl's acceptance. As the Alpha male all PUA must become, it must be YOU the one auditioning the females.

Yes, I know when a HB flirts back, it is a huge ego-buster, but we are not supposed to be fishing for their validation. If you seek validation, it is because you don't have any of your own.

3: You failed to recognize her activating the bitch-shields up. She must get hundreds of soliciting e-mails from freaks and weirdos, all of the time, who seek her validation.

I'd like to see what this girl looks like.
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I had a huge problem with AA and it took me a long while to get to where I was the other day. I still got nervous but could deal with the discomfort. The whole premise was "Even if they have no interest, there is very little they can say that can actually hurt me." Then this happened. I was sarging online and wrote to a hb8 because she seemed cool and said something in her profile that said she liked people who are amazing and don't even know it (me maybe?lol) so I wrote her.

ME: Hey, I'm new on this site but I havent gotten too many responses. Maybe you can tell me how amazing I am. lol

hb8:Maybe you should take not getting responses as a hint as to how amazing YOU ARE NOT!

Me: WTF? Why would you say that to me? I was only trying to talk to you?

Hb8: Yeah, well you aren't goodlooking and you should stick to girls in your own league but I bet you don't even give girls in your league the time of day. You go after girls that are way out of your league and would never date an average looking loser like you. You're Pathetic! Stop going after girls out of your league! Why would someone like you even think that I would even think twice about you?

She got me right where it hurts. She killed my self-confidence, my self-esteem and my self-image. I've never been called ugly before, in fact I've always been considered cute but I've always had a negative self-image that I've worked very hard to turn around and this girl put doubt in my mind. I guess the thing is, although this was online, sometimes there is reason to have AA. I've gotten past her tirade for the most part, but it sits in the back of my mind with every approach...
DUDE, for that kind of things, you know what i would've done,

while she was talking, i would have like ether walked away, or stopped her and said she had a booger in her nose. So the main point is to make her look stupid as possible and act like a mothafuckin' badass. And listen to some songs by NWA, haha they always make me feel alpha as fuck.
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I think you maybe shouldn't have said that you haven't gotten many responses. isn't that DLV?
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LOL...thats one crazy chick!
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ME: Hey, I'm new on this site but I havent gotten too many responses. Maybe you can tell me how amazing I am. lol

hb8:Maybe you should take not getting responses as a hint as to how amazing YOU ARE NOT!

Me: WTF? Why would you say that to me? I was only trying to talk to you?

Hb8: Yeah, well you aren't goodlooking and you should stick to girls in your own league but I bet you don't even give girls in your league the time of day. You go after girls that are way out of your league and would never date an average looking loser like you. You're Pathetic! Stop going after girls out of your league! Why would someone like you even think that I would even think twice about you?
First I would say that you can't really play the game online, the internet is great but, but in relationships it is a handicap. People are social in the sense that they need real contact with each other.

Secondly you lacked confidence in what you said, in your comments there was a lot of DLV, I'd say for the first comment or opener it was ok, but you freaked out, and came with a crappy response, when you had all the time in the world to consider it!.

Like someone previously said she took time to respond to you! And negative attention is still attention. You just let this girl flame, and the only reason you didn't flame back is because you potentially liked her. You have to fight her fire with fire, you have to make it seem that commenting on her myspace or whatever is a gift! And to get a girl you have to risk the chance of losing her.

Remember, you start with nothing, and have the chance of gain a girl, but since that didn't happen you lost nothing, and potentially gained some experience for the next time.

I can tell you this, might be the first time you crash and burn but definitely not the last... it will continue to happen so be prepared, because just like there are guys you like and hate, there are girls you will like and hate. Right now, just move on ;)
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Unless you truly screw up a neg or anything like that or the girl is PMSing I don't think you'd get a response that negative. Remember, we can all act tough behind a computer monitor. Don't let her get you down. A real PUA understands that every girl is one of countless and knows how to move on.
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Well that was a pretty harsh response but the thing I would say to a girl like this is FUCK YOU mainly because she is a bitch. If a girl is that rude to me then there is absolutely no way I would ever want to hang out with her at all. That to me is just a girl with a bitchy personality who will be put in her place eventually.
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Well, you started with a DLV, but you could always make a come back...

When she told you that: didn't not getting responses ... etc

Tell her, when I mean no responses, I meant to what I want, All these girls think of me as a piece of meat with no soul and personality, and I did not like that. (role reversal)

and also when she implies anything about you being ugly, tell her: no honey, that won't make you hot by comparison. or something like that. If you have issues, I know a very good therapist in your area to help you with your self-esteem.

keep your replies short, I tried longer one and I came off as "trying too hard"
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you acted like a afc player wannabe with that line
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