Approaching Tips & Tricks - Study Case

Hi guys,

Let's study this case which is probably very often amongst this forum's readers. His name is confidential because I want to keep it that way but I would like to bring the conversation to all readers' attention because I think it's a very important topic. I would like to read your feedback about this and any questions are most welcomed and to be debated in this thread!

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> My problem is approaching and saying something meaningful
> at the same time. When you approach you have only so little time, else > she will walk away.

When we approach, we make a first impression. That comes from the way we look into the eyes of the girl, from the way we project our voice, from the inner state we have and the intent that comes when we talk. All that is very important and has to be carefully observed by an experienced coach in order to be tweaked to top performance.

Some people learn very fast just by looking at others, but others need a coach to give them good feedback so they can correct and make less mistakes untill their learning courve gets bigger and bigger along with success with women.

> However, I managed to overcome this when i drink alcohol
> and when I'm in talkative mode with my friend, but I'm missing some
> gameplan. When I use openers, rutines and scripts, I struggle
> remembering how opener/rutine/whatever continues.

Gameplan is simple...

Approach by saying "I like you I would like to get to know you" and make it honest and genuine.

Than wait for reaction or just hold out your hand and tell her your name... then calibrate her reaction ... and if she's accepted your approach even a little bit and even if not... then just lead the conversation and tell a nice story about your current happy state and let her join into that good state... if she reacts well to this feeling it's very simple from here on... if not it's ok... there are other girls too.

that's the game plan i use, in big terms, and if we ever meet in person for a workshop i can demontrate it live and make sure you put into practise yourself, that's a promise.

no routines, no gimmicks, this is about being spontaneous!

> If I open on autopilot just "being
> myself" I end up saying nothing. You read right - NOTHING, there is a big
> silence, then she walks away And these situations kind of discourage
> me from approaching any more, why do it since it's useless

this NOTHING comes because YOU ARE NOT RELAX... i can teach you how to be relaxed... how to change your body language to change your feelings, but i'm afraid i might not be able to explain this properly in text.

words come out naturally and spontaneously when you have the right intent and the right expectations from an interaction as well as the relaxed state to make it happen... Smile

do you have these things? in those situations?

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Now let's talk about this.
What did you think? Where you in his position before? How did you handle those situations?

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