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I may be reading this wrong, but it seems as though you've already disqualified yourself (in your mind) by thinking age has any bearing between you & her or in PU in general. This is a limiting belief.
You're 18, she's 20... so frickin' WHAT! Age ain't nothing but a number - to quote some famous musician or whatever. Thinking negatively like this is only going to deter you from talking to her. As long as you carry yourself confidently and are comfortable in your own skin, it doesn't matter whether she's 2, 4, 8, 10, or whatever years older than you.
No "techniques" are going to work (either short or long run) unless you get rid of this limiting belief NOW.
HURRAY FOR NLP!
God thats been drilled into me so bad by my NLP coach. Rofl. Some good/bad memmories. That attitude is now second nature.
Think bad and u will act bad, think good and u will act good.
If its a confidence thing, who feels ure confidence? Just you. So whats stopping you from creating more out of thin air? Nothing. Do it. Belive that u MUST get this girl. There is no 'trying' the word 'trying' implys that there is a possiblity of failure (which doesnt exist lol, failure is a learning experience ure always learning someting new when u mess up = winning!) U wont belive how powerful the words you use when u communicate with yourself. Think about it, are u setting ureself up to blow it? Or are u setting ure self up to learn somthing new and enjoy it in the process?
Have fun, dont get caught making out with her by ure boss tho. Lol.
heh - it's funny, I've never learned any NLP, this is a mentality I arrived at from experience (from the military and from performing at open mics). I think I should see what NLP is about though.
CHAT