Hey guys this is my first post since I began using the PUA method, and I'm still a beginner.
Here's the story.

I know this girl for some time now, basically I met her at the hair saloon where she works and that's the only place I ever got to talk to her. Until now!

Recently I met her at a new bar that just opened, and she works there. I know she's got a lot of interest for me (IOI's) but I just don't know how to take it from there! (Doesn't that suck????)

To be more exact I allready told her I'm going to stop by at the saloon to get a hair cut, and she got all excited and stuff ( thats good right? ) But the big problem I see, is that she's got all of these co-workers over there and it's impossible for me to do something. The other possibility would be just to stop by at the bar where she works, but I'm affraid that's going to be a DLV from mine side, since I never go to that bar, and it's kinda gonna look try-hard from mine side.

I know she would probabilly go out with me, but I dont know where to take her!!!! I mean, she's in a bar mostly all the time and stuff...

This is a huge one for me, and I would appreciate any help from you.

Andre

Yeah, it could look try-hard if you go to the bar alone, but not if you go there with a couple of friends. Then she'll see you and your mates hangin' out, having a good time.

It is an IOI if she gets exited over you getting a haircut =P. But hey, chill, you don't have to kiss her or something like that, yet. You don't have to "do something". Does the co-workers even care if the two of you made out? I think not, but if it makes you uncomfortable, you could simply build attraction with being fun and interesting. Go make some plans, ask her to help you shop some new cloths, and take it from there.

You're already doing great, why?, because she already likes you!

Hey man thanx!!

Yeah I think I will take her shopping or something, that's cool. I don't wanna take her out for dinner or anything, I think that's old school

Yeah and about her co-workers, they know my siblings and stuff so I don't wanna do anything over there...


I find it really amazing how this method really works!!! I mean I always got looks from girls but I never knew what to do after that, or if i did I always mested up. This is really changing my life drastically, and I have allso told my best friend all about it, he's having some problems with smoking weed all the time, and keeps surpressing his (woman)problems, and I can tell its helping him!

Thanx again
Andre

***IN HIGH SCHOOL***

Ok, so a few weeks ago, we were doing a project where people go in front of the class and present stuff. Now, my seat is in the front, so my seat was taken up, and I was to sit in whose ever seat was presenting. A guy went up, and I got to sit next to this EXTREMELY hot girl. Now she sits next to another "above-average" (I'd say like 7 maybe) girl, who I think is her best friend. Behind me was this girl (not really hot at all) who they're not really friends with, but they talk/are friendly to her, and I sort of knew her, talked to her sometimes.

OK, so I was sitting and the guy is presenting, and they all start giggling. I turn around and I'm like "what?" I get nothing, turn back around, but they still kept on giggling, and i kept turning and saying "what" a few more times (started smiling.) At the end, after the guy was over, I stood up, was going back to my seat, and the girl that was behind me (the one I "knew") grabbed my arm. I was like what? And she said there was something on my arm, and they where all laughing so I was like what is it?

Then while I'm looking at my arm, the REALLY hot girl's friend comes up and grabs my arm also. I'm like standing there and I pretended not to notice because she was just walking and grabbed it real fast (I was really embarrassed, but I don't think i showed it.)

Then, the girl that I knew, asked me to flex and i was like "What? no" (smiling) and she was like "come on, do it for Kattie (the really hot girl)" I was like "what" no lol".

Now I went back to my seat, and I tried to not look in that general direction for the rest of the class. We're on opposite sides of the class room, so we never really like talk to or anything, but I didn't approach them the next day, and after that was spring break.

I came back from spring break yesterday, and We all went to the library, so everyone was closer together, and me and the really hot girl crossed eyes a few times.

Then today, so came up with some of her friends, and asked me If I had notecards, and another one in the group is like "{myname} has notecards" but I dind't,so i said no.

We didn't talk for the rest of the period, but like, I think she's interested in me, what should i do? I really suck at talking to girls, especially the ones who i think are hot..HELP!!!

I'm sorry it's so damn long..T_T

some good replys

Dude, you dont need to respond to everything that a girl says or does to you(refer to Mystery's hoop theory). What i would have done was turn around and give them a serious face like "oh you guys are so wierd/immature". Dont get sucked into their games. Set up your own frame and they'll know whos the man.
As for the girl, shes begging you to approach her. She wants to see if you are manly enough to just go up and approach her. do it. just remember that your the shit and that she wants you. Act cool and calm, like you want nothing from her. Try an opinion opener to get her started. good luck.

Yeah I agree with VAtrackstar, don't fall for their games, create your own frame where YOUR in COMMAND.

Actualy listening to ur story wasn't boring at all, probably cuz I know how u felt from experience.^_^!.
When theyr playin theyr games, u cld try to JOIN them, and make them YOUR OWN. For ex: when that girl u know that sits behind u, asked u to flex for katie, ...with a calm voice, slow voice too (take ur time) and a smile....

!!!! BOMP BOMP BOMMMP
B4 I go any further, I recommend u goto yr bathroom or ur room if u have a mirror and look at urself. Now imagine that day or any other similar emberresing day. Look at ur face notice how u look, embarresed. When ur walkin in the schools hallway n ur uncomfortable or shy, akward w.e, try to c ur face, remember it, ur eyes wide open the form everthing in ur facial expression, keep it in mind, so when u feel shy, u try to not have that face, instead when ur happy, in the "zone", confident n stuff, memorize ur face, ur expressions, smile everything n try having it all the time even by force, like when saying hi to a friend, do it with a glad,playfull,and confident smile and face.
!!!!!!!!!!!!! OK BacK to my scenerio

....Smile, with that calm and confident face, reverse it and own theyr little game

"flex for katie (pause and smile)... if kattie wants me 2 flex for her, she can ask her self (turn 2 kattie with that playful smile and face )"

From there, well there's an unlimited amount of possibilities, at the end u cld of winked at kattie, I'm guessing she wld of gotten really shy n basicaly feel like u did, lol (u reversed it) or she cld ask u to flex..

well, be like hey I don't just flex for anybody, or idk r u a good tipper(like a male stripper,) OR hey this ain public tv, its pay per view OR basicaly many more cocky funny jokes n scenerios!!
just make sure u take the lead(Take command of THEYR game)

Hope I helped n ur welcomed to PM for questions o w.e

Tamahome :

Next time they start playing game just straight up say that you wont jump through their hoop.

But I agree with the others here the girl is interested in you. She basically tried to open you already with the thing on your arm (being her arm). I think that here you should neg and DHV, since you are in class together an opener is not necessary (neither is a time constraint).

andrej:

When you go get your haircut go towards closing time for the salon, so you can do an instant date when the place closes. It also takes care of the coworkers.

Otherwise maybe go to the bar and "avoid" her.
Have your friends buy the drinks with your money, spot her location upon entering but try not to look at her. If she does see you she may open you again.

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