Guys in a dilemma need some help

Lucky for me, the HOTTEST chick in uni is in my class... and I mean GOD DAMN!!

So far so good, got in the class, introduced myself straight away and got a general convo goin... she told me she liked my name (IOI) and I told her not to abuse it lol.

Found out she's Iranian and seems like a real nice girl personality wise... For the rest of the class I neg'd and DHV'd (I'm the Uni DJ and performed regularly at Ministry of Sound and made sure she was aware of this) and got some interested glances.

I'm guessin so far so good, I got in good with her mates and did not pay much attention to her during the class...next time I see her is next week and I have a total of 8 weeks of classes with her.

My question is.... what's the best way to proceed in subsequent weeks?? It's obviously harder to straight game her since she's in my class, any suggestions how to progressively game her so she starts to show interest?


Oh and just a general question, when do you draw the line between supplication and being a gentleman? e.g. if a girl was asking you to carry her stuff (because its heavy), would that be supplicating?

Kami

man, u a DJ.
so do it ur way.
invite her to one of ur show or wutever.
and if she makes it,
just throw in some music that u think she'd like, or some flirty music, n remix it while speaking to the mic like: "for you beautiful iranian lady out there, yes u know who im talking abt, this is dedicated just for you."
just make it hot when it goes down.
u DJ man.

I'd also like to know the answer to that carry the stuff question. In the past i've said yes because I think you just look like an asshole if you say no for no good reason. I dont know if this is the best thing to do though.

For me, carrying the books depends. If I just met her, I won't carry them, and I'll neg her for it (You're trying to use me, aren't you?). But if I know her, I will carry them, but throw in C&F to let her know I'm being nice (I'll carry them... after all, you're JUST a woman... [smile wickedly]).

If she knows you, it's a sign of rapport and a test, at the same time. She's giving you something that's important to her, but she's also testing your willingness to submit. So, if you have rapport, you can take the books, but in an alpha way.

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there is a very simple way to deal with stuff like carrying books / chivalrous supplication.

Do it, but give her a hard time over it first. Do not simply do it for her. Do not do it in a friendly way. Do it in a cocky way.

Hm arn't you guys over complicating the matter?
Heres my opnion if she asks you its fine, becuase your doing her a favour and I think its also a kind of IOI.

But if you ask her first then your really just acting like a servant, and this lowers your value. So yeah only if she asks but do not volunteer.

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Now looking back at all we've had...
we let so many dreams just slip through our hands...
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

I'll carry yours if you carry mine.

I know it's too late to answer it but I think you're in Malaysia, Right?

I'm also an Iranian guy from Iran who lives in Malaysia. I must tell you that you can be really direct with Iranian girls, they are different

Just be direct and don't try hard to get them I think for Iranian girls you don't need anything to get them but money they love well off guys lol