ok now i have this problem, like many newbies, where i cant keep a conversation going or even have something interesting to say.

i dont know if this has been mentioned before, but would it be a good idea to just make some stuff up and bullshit a really good story?

if anyone has any advice on this (or even some good stories to share), i would greatly appreciate it.

thanks much

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Vic Vega

Here is one exercise.

Say the girl told u something like this:

HB: Oh me and my friend were just at the mall and we got these great shoes!


you then pick a word from her sentence/story and share your own story, for example you could talk about the last time you were at the mall, or last time something funny happened at the mall. Alternatively you could talk about the shoes, so omg yea i just got some new shoes at so and so store. Then from that story or sentence if she replies then u do the process over again.

YOU: omg yea last time we were here this fat kid slipped in the food court and spilled his tray everywhere!

HB: hahaha did he get hurt?

YOU: i dunno we just watched him and laughed just like everyone else.

HB: lol bla bla

YOU: So are the shoes you're wearing the new ones you bought?

HB: yea aren't they so cute

YOU: if you say so hun

HB: shut up jerk

You: make me im rubber you're glue... lol ok don't say that well who cares say w/e u want no one cares

Get the idea? hope that helped

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damn, i never realized you could put that into a some sort of strategy like that

thanks lovemonkey

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Vic Vega

its cool to make shit up the odd time when u have nothing to say but make sure u dnt BS too much or ull get caught out especially if u want to see the girl again!!

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My policy on making things up is to make it outlandish and make sure it is understood to be a joke. I once talked to a girl about my human soul business on eBay and how I had to smack down satan because he was getting uppedy that I was cutting into his market.

See? its fun and known to be a joke. This also alows you to think of something else real to talk about.

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