And what if you're in highschool? This wouldn't work for us.

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Ya know shadow, I've found the most important thing when trying to open sets isn't so much what I have to say, but my mindset...because it's going to affect how I say it. So get yourself in a playful mood before you go and open sets then you can usually say whatever and they'll be into it because they'll pick up on your mood. Obviously having it all planned out will help add to your confidence, but like I said what comes out of your mouth doesn't always matter....because 90% of what you're saying is conveyed by your body.

Or

You can walk up to her holding the phone as though you're gonna hand it to her...hit her hard enough over the head with it to knock her out cold, then turn to her friend and say, "Man those roaming fees hit you HARD!". She'll laugh and you two can continue your convo without having to worry about a cock block. Lol... I'll try this and let you know how it works.

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wow these forums arent as active as others lol... but yea nice guys. I didnt go sarging but starting tommorow Im gonna sarge so wish me luck. Also both bits are nice but the bit aboult the cloths- how would you transition from asking then negging at her answer to either fluff talk, or DVH and # close. Wouldnt the mood be set off by switching subjects.

I like the openers you all mentioned, but be very careful guys with the fake phonecall ones! Imagine you actually get a phonecall while pretending to be chatting on the phone!
Or better still, one of the chicks asks to chat to this guy on the phone to give him an answer in person

You can maybe follow them around for a min or two, see what item they are looking at, and then approach them with an opener associated to the item they are looking at. For example, if they are looking at some pink top, say something like, "You seem to like that pink top there" or something like that

But the people here are nicer and more helpful, so I find it better here.
Theres more of a sense of commradary here, than on other forums.

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16 years old and looking for help.