Now, I think most people try to hard to come up with a opener. Its not about the words you say but its how you deliver and carry yourself when it comes out. If your unsure about it, it will be seen in your body language. I can't remember who said this but everything comes down to 80% body language and 20% of what actually come outs. Alot of people are still using canned openers or can not come up with one for themselves. There will be a time where only this method will work and we will have to start adapting on the fly. Which is why I called it on the Fly.

I relate a opener to being a knock on someone's door. You are going to have either 3 responses:

1) They open it. Aka meaning you got them Hooked.

2) They talked to you through the door. Which incase you have to game them into opening the door by being yourself.

3) They lock you out. You move on with your head hail high. Think about Jehova witness. How many times they get turned down and what people say to them. They keep on going and going even if they know there going to be locked or shut downed.


There are any different type of different openers:

We all know what Indirect, Direct, Situtional, and Opinion Openers are but I want to introduce you to my method.



On the Fly: Which is not really a method but I plan on making up a method. Now, A on the fly opener can hit you at any moment in time or place. I have had them in the shower, the shitter, while walking downtown, etc. The things that make on the fly opener's so unique and catchy because there made within a second. You really don't put to much emphasise on if it will work or not. You just do it! This method will really show your personality when you bring it out because only you could have thought it up. Which brings me into my 3 rules/steps of on the fly pricinples.

Fear It: You come up with a opener but your to afraid to use it. Your still suffering from AA or care to much what someone will think of you. If you are experiencing this you need to better your game.

F*** It: You think of a opener and you approach and use it. The only thing is you don't commit to it. You don't believe in yourself when saying it. It comes off at being about 60-80% of its Value. This is a good step to be in because your over your AA and you can careless what this person is going to think of you.

Do It: Now when the opener hits you. Your like a warrior charging a line of men with a cavalry behind you. Your are at 100% plus full commitment. You say it with enough enegry and intensity that you believe its the greatest opener to you use at that time or that you come up with. Aswell as you know it will hook everytime which it usually will. Then you go straight into you game.

Now the things with on the fly openers it can be anything from a neg to a question. For example:

A HB walks by with 2 of her friends and you pick up a wiff of her perfume or anything. Whatever comes to your mind speak it. "Wow, You know you smell really nice but...(pause) you ain't got the let the whole world know" (cocky smile while fanning your hand in front of your nose)

Even if it doesn't stick you just came up with a opener that you can use at another time. Maybe try it 3 or 4 more times and see how it works. On the fly is all about Field Testing your mind. Its the greatest tool we have as PUAs. I am pretty sure most girls might take offense to that statement but if you come off with the Do It attitude and charming they should open up. Also notice how you didn't pick the girl out with the smell. Hopefully they will say which one of us and then you can lean in kino and smell each one. Then neg your target and work the obstacles.

Remember to Keep it Real, Tight, and Smooth!

Hope yall enjoyed reading and feedback is much appericated.

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Fear it! Fuck it! Do It!

The Creator of the Facebook Poke Method!

Hesitation means Masturbation!

good stuff. i use the but... technique too to keep em guesiing n cumin bak 4 more. lol

eg but... i'L tell u later.


FOLLOW-UP
Well girls i think i know now why u smell but...

Follow me over there a minute...

When they follow u to a place where u can chit chat.

U juz say well u smell nice but ur fashion sense sucks. (laugh)

THen u can give em fashion advise. And ask em out shoppin:)

networkman

this is a good way to do things for a pua like me - who isnt looking for a relationship... and the highest point is not only to f- close or k- close a hb9 or 10... but to also figure out what.. is.. woman...


-Lex

Haha. This is good.

Your opener above is a situation opener, but i understand what you mean, openers from off the top of your head in the moment and all that, thats the best way to open.

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