This isnt an anti-women post;just pointing out some female psycology.

I've been on POF for about 3 months now.

Not for dating nor hook ups;more like working on some routines and social vibing.

But I've noticed this familiar theme with most of the women.

99% of the profiles I browse,the girl start off by saying,"Im not looking for a hook up nor fling".

Or,"If you're looking for intimate- meet ups with me,keep it moving.Dont message me because Im not that kinda girl".

Of course I know it's female psycology at work here,also ASD(anti-slut defense)& plausibile deniability(lol).

Since I know this,Im instantly contacting those girls just to expose them.

It's so ironic how those same chiccs who werent looking for hook-ups are actually hooking up with me by the 4th.message hours later(lol).

I actually get no replies from POF women who are straight up about being sexual and not wanting intimacy but fun(i.e.sex).

But I always get instant replies from women who say they're looking for something long-term.

But that's contradictive since my profile states Im not looking for anything long-term.

So it's obvious that those wanna-be conservative/prudes are really looking to get laid.

I cannot count on my hands the amount of those girls I would end up having phone sex/cyber sex with later on the same day(lol).

Of course I dont blame those women nor consider them liars because I know what's driving that behavior.

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Nice post bro...I know exactly what you mean. Women are truly off their rocker.

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LOL i've noticed the same exact thing I was just about to post about this

In my experience at least these same women tend to also have the sluttier pictures in their profile as well.
I have, but it goes no where fast.
I have found a lot of these girls are either on the desperate side. Want their fantasy marriage. Or have kids and want a guy to pay their way basically.

@Sinful-Thanks for the props bro';I already know that you know how it is.

@Themagicalone-I beat you to it bro(lol).You obviously know the concept.

I've noticed this from women for years;not only online.

@Jurupa-Nah I my experience,those girls were more conservatively dressed and covered up.

Lol great insight Jurupa about not getting far too easily with sexually-opened girls on there.

I literally get no where-not even a reply(lol).

Right again Jurupa,90% of them(in my experience)have kid(more than 1).

But they sure hide their desperation.

Anyway,thanks for the replies guys.

Thought I was the ony one who noticed this.

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If this is so, help a guy out. How do you open a girl that you suspect is a close slut? What does your profile look like?

@JaminV-Well my profile is basically rude/ass-holish.

Every guy's profile should be.

Im definitely taken(in a relationship),and I put it.

Even if I was single,I'd never put single.

I also have 2 pics of me and a girl(an ex-)for pre-seletion purposes.

The average guy or AFC would think that it's a bad idea to post photos of themselves with other chiccs.

On the section about the 1st date,I put,"I dont have a car but I do have a bike and I can put my date on the hand bar and ride around town then go to a park and ride the swings like little kids".

Of course every girl knows that Im just joking about carrying them around on a bike.

But it's the humor/"I dont care to impress" vibe which makes this appealing.

I put that Im not looking for anyone,besides a pen pal or e-mail buddy(lol).

Many of the girls are shocked by this,"a guy who isnt looking for anything".

So that definitely pickes their curiosity.

Every chicc which contacts me say,or whom I've contacted would say,"You have a gf,so why be on POF"?

Obviously,having a gf didnt deter them from maintaing contact and try to hook up with me.

As far as opening,I use typical pick-up openers or just make up something on the fly.

But I'd insert something unique to the girl so she doesnt think it's some mass text Im sending to 100 girls.

Lets say she's a 24 year-old waitress,I'd say:

"Your profile is pretty cool but Im hesitant to get to know you since you're only 24(smh).I have bad luck with 24 year olds".

They'd usually respond with,"But you have a gf,why are you on POF"?

Once she sends that 1st reply,it's game over;she's engaged.

So none of that compliment BS unless it's something indirect or unique like saying,"Cool earrings".

I do this a lot online & POF.I'd see girl's profile pic,she has tits showing,sexy dress,nice ass,sexy lips,whatever.

I would compliment them or comment on the most un-obvious thing,"Hey,cool necklace".

That weird compliment would usually throw the girls off guard and make them feel self-conscious.

They may say to themselves,"Wait,I got huge boobs showing,revealing dress,perky-kissable lips and this guy commented on my earrings"?!!!

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in real life, i have noticed the same things. when a slutty dressed girl opens on me and is very flirtacious, i start thinking "this is going to be soo easy.." but those chicks have flaked out or dont answer the phone later.
when i open a conservative looking chick, things go much better.

There's a quote in the movie Spread that I always loved and is applicable to your post:

"When a woman tells you are aren't getting any before you've asked...before you've even tried...you're getting some."

I've found women with "slutty" profiles are the most difficult to land and women with semi-conservative ones end up in bed first. And every time, they say the same thing: "wow this happened fast. i didn't expect this." And most of the time I believe them. They really just don't understand the vibe they are putting out. But someone who understands women sees right through their shields and knows the true meaning

"I'm not here for a hook up" = in bed by second date.

The questions that a women answers in OKCupid are a great way to get a nice feeling for how comfortable a women is in her sexuality. A lot of times the profile is incongruent with the answers to the questions, but the answers to the questions are a lot more indicative.

@Find-N-Grind-Exactly,I get more flakes and BS promises from the more sexual girls than I do from the more shy types or the ones who arent that sexually dressed.

This definitely applies to my street pick ups also.

Anonymousdt-Lol havent we all seen this play out in real life.

I've learnt that years ago from an online-pick up article by a popular dating coach(cant remember which).

A woman will never y that to guy she isnt going to give it to.

Irony is,the chiccs who are more forward are the one who fucking flake(lol).

The ones who say to me,"we are never having sex",I end up laying.

So good point there Anonymousdt.

I find women who look more slutty(their profiles)are harder for me to land too.

As you said,an experienced guy(like us)would be able to spot all the inconsistencies in their profiles.

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Im definitely taken(in a relationship),and I put it.
Even if I was single,I'd never put single.

k-loc, we would be dangerous if we ever went out sarging.

One method that helps me keep them (ladies) intrigued is to keep my responses short and vague. I never compliment and rarely ask questions.

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I do run into those profiles as well, but nearly as much as the girl that is showing off a lot of cleavage or has pics of her wearing tight/fitting clothes.
You can try this as well, but I was going to try and "neg" these girls on their profile or play the "Mr. Nice Guy" on them and flip it. I want to see if I can't get a reply form these girls and see how far I can take it.
I can't really blame them for being at least a tad desperate. I mean how many guys you know will date a single mom? I think most guys would want to bang one than date one. I know I wouldn't date one.
lol. I think you will notice that a lot of guys will notice generally the same stuff as you, especially if you live in a big city. As a lot of that stuff is common no matter if you are in New York or in Los Angeles.

I think a lot of them do know what sort of vibe they are putting out. Its more that they don't want to look easy or come off as desperate (that is if they are). Remember girls want sex as much or more than us guys do. But society looks down upon girls that are easy or sluts so these girls hold back. I mean I can't tell you how many girls have shown up for the first date showing off cleavage, and some where wearing push up bras. Trust me they know what vibe they are putting out.
OkCupid does provide some interesting insight.

@Sinful-Lol Im telling you we'd be dangerous in field together.

My downfall in messaging girls online is that I say too much;messages are too long.

I've been putting it in checc but I slip up at times and appear too eager.

@Jurupa-I like how you'd psych them out by playing the "nice guy"(lol).

In a sense,I do it occasionally just to see how far I get.

I really dont see which guy would'nt bang a single mom who's his type,but full-fledge date is more risky.

Bad judgement call on the girl's part I'd think is the reason those chicks end up being single moms.

I used to think it was a black thing as far as seeing single-black moms.

But since I've been on POF,I've ran across more white-single moms than I could imagine.

Last great point Jurupa was about women having to be more passive(sexually)eventhough they want it!

So true.

And that's why I always advocate for the guy to set the tone and get sexual.

'Cause it's very rare that the girl(no matter how slutty)would make the 1st.move.

I have some AFC friends who cant see this.

They'd literally spend 10 hours with girl then later complain that they didnt(try)lay her 'cause she wasnt into the sex vibes;"she kept talking about what she's gonna cook tomorrow".

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It is pretty interesting what can happen when you switch "roles".
The only reason I see not too is the clingy factor. There are single moms that are desperate for a guy and when one does come around that is willing to go out with them the cling to them.
Depending on the age it can be. A young 20 something girl, ya its most probably a bad judgement call on her part. A late 20 or 30 something mom, more than likely not. As more than likely they were in a serious relationship or was married. Remember in the US the divorce rate is over 50%, which means there are a lot of single moms and dads for that matter out there.