There was a young lady online that said she refused to talk to men who just hawked about how large her breasts were. I saw this and made fun of her for that shit. I basically said she was baiting guys to see who the pervert was. Here is my direct message, enjoy .

Hb aka Queeny (name changed for privacy purposes) profile description:

Like going out to the clubs and dancing with my friends if i could i would go out everyday but i cant because i go to school... I’m studing to be a RN at CLC... what makes me unique is that i like having fun but i'm also a good friend so if u want to just talk and have someone there to listen i'm here for you. Im looking for a Bf soo if your just attracted to my titz and arent looking for anything serious dont waste my time.

Erik (me):

Title of the Message: Fiend! You’re brilliant!

Message:

You are reckless, flashing those god-given bosoms and not expecting men to drool. FEAR NOT HOWEVER! I am not one of these men . Smart move, I know you deceivingly put that pic up to see what horny bastards will take the bait. Instead I propose that me, you, Ti-ti and Tina go hangout some time. That way I can get to know YOU a lil better .

Her present response: Lol u are smart pa

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So for the love of Christ I can't seem to figure out what the hell pa means, she can't possibly be calling me daddy. It would be cool, but I'm sure that's not what it means. I'm not too worried about responding correctly, I'm relatively new to the online dating scene and I've already had 3 women message me back, although one went cold, another is really interested in meeting, and this girl is just the third to get back.

cool that you went for something original and got a response, but there are a few beginner mistakes.

positives: original, not a one liner. showed you understand women bait with pics.

negatives: focused on looks from the first message. brought up sex in the first message. painted yourself as a non-sexual "nice guy", although in a joking way.

so not all bad as a practice, and you did actually get a response.

lessons learned :

don't compliment physical appearance. she gets that all day long, gets you nowhere. if you must compliment find something in her profile.

don't bring up sex , even jokingly , in the first email. she gets that all day long, gets you nowhere. If you must bring up sex, do it later after she responds.

If you do bring up sex, you are the guy who WILL look at her sexually, who WILL have sex with her. Those OTHER guys are nerds who will treat her like a princess, never wanting sex or being aggressive.

You know honestly, I've been doing this during day game as well, I know they are slightly different, but this could be one of my problems. Thanks for the advice man, now how to dig my self out of this trench hole?