So I'm having a convo with this girl I randomly messaged after seeing her intelligence in an online facebook debate about astronomy.

I add her and she says: Why the random add?
I mean, new friends are always great... But I'm curious as to what sparked the interest in becoming friends with me? I mean this is the most uninsulting way, but are you one of those who just adds people with no real hope of a friendship worth grasping or do you actually try to get to know people?

I reply in a cocky funny way: To be honest, I added you because you seem interesting... I noticed from %^&*'s discussion you are intelligent, and from your picture that you are beautiful but are you worth getting to know? That is something I am still unsure of! haha

She replied upping the ante: Well it appears as though I am not the only one of intellect here; you're very smart for thinking that I'm interesting... Lemme tell you, I'm the most interesting person you'll ever meet. I'm the best there's ever been! ;]

I may not fulfill your standards of someone that you would like to get to know, but I'll definitely make it worth your while. Lol Or I could just convince you that I'm worthy. But why should I endeavor to win you over when I'm unsure if you're even worth a second glance?


Wow she is good haha. I was like damn.

Any help on replying would be great.
I'm thinking about starting off by saying: First off, it would atleast be the thrid glance.

Wow,this chicc's chatty(lol)-but it's a great sign of possible interest in you.

But this' what I'd do from here on-cut that thread!!!

You never want to milk a topic by dwelling on it too much which will stall out and create an awkward vibe.

So change the topic and stacc forward to something else.

Lead the interraction now before she get to dominate the frame and becomes the prize;which is what's happening.

She's subtly trying to steer or lead the interraction to where you're now trying to qualify yourself to her,so cut it off by going into something else.

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Thank you a million times for the quick and substantial response.

2 questions:

1:Should I cut to the chase and ask her for her number? Like "It would be difficult for either of us to see if this is worth our busy schedules unless we meet up for coffee this weekend, what's your number?"

or

2: Any tips on how to continue the conversation? Should I be like "Before, we discuss any of that, Who are you?" haha

I am a total noob to pua skills so thank you for the patience.

Anytime,no prob'.

1)Hell no you should NOT attempt a #-close next time you contact her!

You havent build enough attraction yet for her to want to give the #.

You're moving way too fast.

You havent even hit this girl with any DHV stories yet.

You havent told her anything interesting about you yet.

So why would she exchange #'s?

She wont give it.

Even if she does,it would be a fake # most likely,or she just wont answer when she figures it's you calling.

Women have no problems giving out their #'s.

They just wont answer when you call(lol).

So the best thing you should do is wait a few more days and build more attraction first with some interesting stories.

The more attraction yo gain,th more willing she'd be to giving the # and talking on the phone.

Less attraction(like now),she may give the #,but she wont answer your calls.

2)Just change the topic.

Bring up something else.

This' the initial-attraction phase,so you have to dish out material to attract her.

Tell her something interesting about yourself(lie if you have to-lol).

Make up a story about how you met a girl online who turned out to be stalker,newly-released from prison.And she online stalked you for months to the point of having to change your e-mail address & phone #.

And how she showed up at your job site un-announced claiming to be your sister.

That's a very interesting story I just made up.

Women love drama & Soap Opera & stories like those will attract her.

Tell her,"I hope you're not the stalker type".

After a while of such attraction material,she giving you her # would be 80% more possible than if your next move was to ask for her #.

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