Me: I prefer brunettes, lets see what your like
Her:
Her: sends picture
Me: Brunettes are way more fun, your really pretty though
Her: Was it a compliment.... thanks
Me: hahaha you wont get a compliment off me that easy, youll have to work for it
doesnt reply......
Me: you didnt strike me as someone who is 'too cool to talk'
doesnt reply.......
Me: I came here to chat to people not to see a statue (pretty girl who doesn't talk)
doesnt reply.......
Me: cya (waves)
Her: bye, your so full of yourself
Me: hahaha what makes you think you can handle me at my best if you cant handle me at my worst?
Her: well I just dont like guys like that ok
Me: takes one to know one right
Her:so.. are you an artist?
Me: I enjoy painting, it helps to express my emotions rather then to smash things around
Her: I like to sing....
Me: what kind of genre do you sing to?
Her: Happy
Me: Ive never heard a happy genre before, do you mean like happy birthday songs?
Me: tell you what you sing me a song and I will draw you a portrait of yourself
Her: rock, pop lol
Me: sing me a song
Me: did you sing me a song?
Her: I did
Me: Hey thats not fair I didnt hear you sing!
Her: sorry I dont have a microphone
Me: hmmmm.. well since you sang me a song its only fair to draw you your portrait
Me: (insert emotion pic) I call it "semi pretty girl on chat"
Her: thanks you nice(kiss)
Her: semi pretty?
Me: you not ugly
Her: Thanks, I guess...
Me: I said to a friend of mine before and mentioned she was the prettiest girl Ive ever seen, I cant take it back from her
Her: I understand, so.. you like her or what?
Me: of course I like her, dont you like your friends?
Her: of course i like them bt not like that
Me: oh not like that....
Her: i don't tell my best guy friend he is the beautifull guy i've seen cuz he'll understand something else lol
Me: I prefer to call my girlfriend to be beautifull, it represents not just her looks but also her personality
Her: Agree
Me: no hard feelings but youll have to work to get beautifull from me
Her: i can't show u how beautiful or 'unbeautiful' i am on the chat...only face to face u'll really see how i am
Me: true.. but our conversations over chat will show me how beautifull your personality is, besides Ive already seen a photo of you
Her: yeah..bt on chat people might lie so i never fall in love on chat
Me: good, give me you email so we can get to know each other a little better. If your lucky I might just add you on Facebook
Her: No thanx.... i don't like virtual relasionships
Me: hey easy I wasnt asking for a relationship, if thats what your here for thats cool, I just wanna make new friends and chat
Her: your age?
Me: hey thats not very fair you havnt told me yours 1st
her ok... Im 19 you're funny lol
Me: cool Im 20
Her: MSN XXXXXXXX@hotmail.com
Me: thanks its really hard to find a women who has a good sense of humour these days
Me: cool lets talk on MSN instead
Her: OK

There ya go ladies and gents success! ^_^

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Well done !

Hey Dilaks,

I don't mean to be funny or anything, but you seemed too cocky at first, I know a lot of guys teach that you should be like that but it's really unnesessecary. Also while it's good to hold back a little and not be too pushy, you're holding back too much. The "semi pretty" comments and all that are again unnecessary, some girls will just use that as an excuse to blow you out.
Here you're making the process way too long, again holding back too much and pushing her away. She already likes you at this point, and she's hinting at meeting you face to face. Stop making it longer by trying to only get an email address or Facebook and chat online, meet her face to face. You can't fuck an msn address. Also saying you're just looking to make new friends? That's bad, this is exactly how guys get put into the friend zone - by hiding their real intentions. You don't want to just be her friend (I'm assuming you don't anyway, since you're posting about it on here).

So yeah, don't push them away too much, don't hide your real intentions and tell them you just want to be friends, and get them to meet you face to face as soon as possible

Adam Thomas any feed back is welcome!
Semi pretty is a playful test I give women, depending on how they respond I will have an idea on how confident they are, some women have some very LSE(low self esteem) if she is confident I know I can play around with her if she has LSE then I will have to take it down a notch

You are right, imo push pull is a very good technique. I remember reading the game where style and the porcelain twins first met and they wanted to stay with Style the next time they were in Miami, Style made it way to easy for them by saying yes and he mentioned in the book he should have made it more of a challenge. From the example above this is what I was doing with my target, the way I see it is all fun and games
You are right I am really glad you picked this up!
Thanks for the feed back Adam

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That's generally awesome

the whole cocky upfront strategy has merits but I suppose you do have to be prepared to walk away if they don't hook when you bye.

The merit it has is because you can get a pretty strong interest/attraction reaction from a girl if they come to their own conclusion that they misjudged you in some way. It's something to do with the distance they travel in their head. I haven't discovered the psychology behind it yet tho.

Even tho push pull is a great thing is feels like you took too many steps back. she's talking about having to meet her and you're backfooting to facebook. msn after that seems a sideways step not a forward one.

Yes C&F does work, in your state of mind you have to belief in your self that you are the prize. Sure she can be the hottest women you have ever seen but for me it doesnt mean she can walk all over me...
1 step forward 2 steps back my friend, I know I back track a lot as Adam mentioned. With the Facebook sure it may seem like a sidestep rather then a forward one, at this point it is clear she is interested. I belief if I talk to her on Facebook and keep the attraction and interest she will want me even more and more. Like a person addicted to drugs where they want it so bad and cant get it I want my target to feel the same way as a drugged up person would feel when they dont have any more drugs, all of a sudden when they get the drugs they go straight into in until the cycle starts again. That feeling will drive any women crazy!!

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

Yeah that's true, they wanted to hang out with him, but if I remember correctly he didn't end up fucking either of them did he? This was because he fucked about too much being indirect.

For now yeah she sounds very interested, but as soon as another guy ends up fucking her quickly she'll lose interest in you. I still think you should meet her and fuck her soon, when you're playing the long game you're always risking losing her to another guy.

And you're welcome, hope this helps mate

Great topic and feedback! I love it!

Nope. Style fuked up because of the bathroom advice he got from mystery; he went into their motel room walked right in and said I need to take a shower, imo that is lack of game he went inside the motel unprepared. It was also a direct move when style said he needed a hand.

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3) Those who make it happen

It wasn't just the bathroom advice he got from Mystery. They never wanted to fuck him, if they HAD wanted to sleep with him then when he'd asked one of them to come into the bathroom it would have worked. But it didn't. That was because right from the start they never saw him as a sexual threat, because he was way too indirect. They only saw him as a friend.

quote] It was also a direct move when style said he needed a hand.[/quote]

It was a direct move when he said he needed a hand, but it was too late by then, had he been more direct earlier they would have been able to make a better decision whether to invite him or not. They would either have known he was going to fuck them when they invited him up, or they wouldn't have invited them up at all. The only reason they invited him to hang out was because they were comfortable around him, because they didn't fancy him but they also didn't think he was after shagging them either. Either way, his push pulling skills didn't get him laid...

My point is that by pushing too much you're more at risk of losing girls. I actually read an article on tsb magazine, talking about how the best combination of push-pull to get the quickest pulls is 20% push - 80% pull. I agree with this. I don't do push-pull deliberately. When I disagree with something a girl says I will say so, that's the only pushing I will do, the rest is all about pulling. So yeah, I think you push too much.

Here is the article: http://www.tsbmag.com/2008/06/25/how-to ... ny-day-11/

2 steps forward 1 step back* LOL
I re-read 'The Game" and I realized it was the time when style first met the 10s and 11s not the porcelain twins, the end result he kclosed the 11. I was being arrogant and stubborn about the push pull and yeah too much push pull can push your target I guess I need more practice with push pull

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen