I'm new to the PUA scene. Pretty good reading here. Need some help...

Thought I would start out trying to do some online. Here was the first exchange with HB7 on POF...

Subject: I'm out of breath...

...from visiting your profile again!

I got on POF out of sheer boredom. I'm pretty sure I'm going to find people here not much different than in real life. People here are maybe just more shy than people in the real world. I thinking maybe I'd be more disappointed if I met someone here, because they probably couldn't say a coherent sentence when we meet in person... "hi" "what's your name?" "so what do you do for a living?" "wanna check out my chia pet collection? ...Boring.

However, your profile was a breath of fresh air. It tells me that you are a strong, independent, and vivacious woman. I hope this is the case. Are you trustworthy?? Let me know and maybe we can share some good conversation and laughs sometime. Sincerely, xxx.


Hi xxx,

It seems like you have a good sense of humor, that is fantastic because I love to laugh. Would you like to chat over the phone instead of the internet? Please let met know...


So, start critiquing, but how should I close the number? When should I call, etc? I guess I am supposed to Neg here some way and then tell her to give me her damn number?

Thanks.

You wrapped up my whole convo with one girl in to an opener! Did it well too and you got her to # close you!

She did the hard work for you and initiated the phone convo. Since you're already using my opener (atleast you can give me credit =D ) try this # close.

You: "what time is the best time to call you tomorrow?"

Her: "8:00pm (something like that)

You: "hm. I'm gonna be gone till around 10:00pm (make it up) how bout I call you around (later time)"

Her: "ok"

That way you're the one controlling the convo, not her.

You don't need to neg imo, she's interested, you're interested, case closed. Negging is only to display to her that you're not interested. She made the initial # close, you got it easy man.
BEST OF LUCK!

best of luck man, treat her good. Usually it always the guy trying to hit on the girl. lol