I've really been working on my online game as of late... I've got it to the point where I can consistently number close, getting real numbers, but A LOT of flakes come meet time???

I've just been number closing, then texting immediately after getting the number, with something like, "hey goofball, just wanted you to have my number. We should do coffee/lunch sometime, even if you don't drink coffee or eat lunch." It always leads to a date three - four days down the road (i always say my schedule is kinda cramped till then... bad idea?)... However, 1/2 are flaking on me come meet time... It seems I might be losing attraction somewhere between???

How long do you guys usually wait setting up an initial meeting? Do you take time and build attraction/comfort/and qualify for a while? I've been thinking of setting up an initial date, flaking myself, and then spending a little time building comfort, then finally setting up a real date. Good idea? Any ideas/suggestions, please?

BTW, I've totally put online game off until I can come up with a plan to resolve this issue.. I live in a small area, and cannot afford to burn through all these chicks that keep flaking.

D, you're right about losing attraction somewhere. Can you post a little bit of the interaction online and then the texts that you swap with a girl that's flaked? What does she say when she flakes? How long before the day1 is she flaking? You have the right idea with texting immediately, but maybe text something else that will kind of catch her off guard. She's almost subconciously expecting you to write her and then you say. "so you can have my number" and I think that's a little AFC. Hope I'm not to harsh here, just trying to help.
Maybe text her with something like, "damn, who was that really awesome and handsome guy you just gave your number to?" and she'll know it's you, obviously. So then you can play off her response and attract that way. I would even go so far as to seed (cause I love seeding) with something like.."omg, i just made the best dinner ever! i paired it with this incredible wine...you really missed out..." and then she'll respond, and it doesn't matter what she says, just say something like, "it had these amazing flavors that just really rang...kind of like a really good kiss." and she'll respond and by saying the "really good kiss" thing, you're giving her this image that she could be kissing you and it would be really good...see how this works?
Hope this helps. Just seed when you can, it works like a charm. I recently learned this and I read it in The Game as well, same idea.

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Thanks for responding! I sent you a PM with info and transcripts... I just feel kinda uncomfortable posting them in a public forum (people might know how lame my game really is lol).


I'm getting all kinds of different excuses.. and is usually directly before the time to meet w/i 24hrs (about 2-3 days after closing).


Also, I'm thinking about purchasing Ultimate Phone and Text Game from LOVE Systems... my texting is very lame right now.


EDIT: don't worry about constructive criticism, dude! It's all good, and I want to fix this.