While I was away, I was talking with a girl while I was on vacation who goes to my school(for a random reason, a friend told me to contact her and we met that way). Anyway, now that we are on summer break, she's home and I am home and I want to play my cards right to set it up for next semester. I told her that I might visit her city and she was totally cool with helping me out. Although I'm not doing that this summer, I still want to chat with her and keep me in her head somehow. We never met in person, so that's a challenge, but we're well aware of each other thru mutual friends, friends on facebook and twitter. I just don't know exactly how to go about it right. Any ideas??

IM and video chat were made for this.

Thanks, but what's the best way to go about hooking her. There's no approach, there's no close, there's nothing that I can relate to from being at a club or a bar. This is why I am so confused. We're talking 1 on 1 thru SPAM or something, even though we never met in person. How should I even try to set up a SPAM session??

You've only been talking through email? Well, after you have a few exchanges, you say something like you prefer to chat through IM and ask what services she uses. After you've done IM for a bit and built comfort, you then push to use the video chat feature on whatever service you're using.

Nah I get that part. But what kinda game should I use. Everything a read about PUA has been in person contact(negs, kino, etc.). Is there any kinda online game that's solid to use?

Not in my experience. For online game I've always just had to rely on my personality and being genuinely interested in the girl. If you develop sexual tension with her, that will start to show up and make things more entertaining, that's why I recommend webcam. In my experience, it's a lot easier to have interesting conversation over IM, email is just slow and boring in general.

Well. First impression would have to be made again. You guys are now communicating through something else, so that is needed.

That said. Think of creating a good first impression again. Go from there.

Be funny. Relax and try to make her laugh a lot. Prepare some jokes to tell her just in case you run out of something to say.

be dorky.

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