Hello

I'm new to sarging and even trying to approach women without the whole 'hi how are you?'. So bascially its time for change, hence my name timechange. Bad name i know but i couldnt think off anything better.

Back to my facebook dilema, on friday night i went out with my m8s drinking and eager to try and approach women differently. I was using an opener i though off about a popular ice bar near me, the opener was "excuse me can i get your opionon on something please. I cant stay long i got to get back to my friends. My question is, my friend wants to take his gf to the icebar, but shes refusing to go do you reckon he should just take her there anyway?

I tried this on a girl and it seemed to work, she replied with, 'i would be pissed but i wouldnt mind as long as he made it up'. Which i thought was fairly decent response.

Thats all i got for my game at the moment so i basically fluffed after that. As we were talking we seemed to enter a banter war. Which i kept losing at but i kind of liked it though. Im so use to people not being like that it was a nice change.

After eventually getting my ass beaten down enough i left. I woke up the next day and decided to add her on facebook. She accepted my request. Here comes my facebook dilema, ive talked to her twice but ever time its been short and ended promptly. Is there anything i can do from here? Do i ask out on or a date or for a phone number? Or have i blown it?

Any responses on anything ive written would be appreciated. Also any ideas on reading material to let me have more than just an opener would be benefical.

Cheers guys

Hmm honestly it's a difficult situation to resolve, because you didn't build enough attraction or DHV for yourself in the set. You could try a few statuses that DHV on facebook, there's a thread on here actually, she may respond to it. If not when you see her on chat, have a laugh, be funny.

_________________
Been there, done it, oh and still doing it!

: Blog entries@ http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/