Hey guys, your opinion on this one would be much appreciated!!

Say, hyperthetically, that you had been speaking to a girl online, whom from the pictures were pretty fit (HB8). You talk for a while, build rapport, harmless flirting and then decide to meet up in Central London for drinks. She seemed pretty up for it and was very excited about the meet up... As was I!! Anyway I turn up and walk towards the meeting point... Had a look around and couldn't see anyone who even vaguely resembled her. Eventually I pull out my phone and call her... I then see right in front of me someone pick up their phone and started looking around. As soon as I had confirmed this was indeed her I put the phone down, turned around and left the area as quick as I could. Basically she looked nothing like the girl in the pictures, despite claiming they were recent pics... She was about a UK size 16 despite being around an 8 in the pics and to be honest I just felt like I had been taken for a fool.

Would you say I was in the wrong for just walking off like that? I mean the whole basis of our meet up was based on lies anyway, as she had deceived me into thinking she looked like what she did 3 years ago (or however old the pics were)...
I'm not an arsehole, so just want confirmation from you guys as to what you would have done in the same situation.

Peace...

Wow,I've been there.

I love bbws so I wouldnt mine if she turned out to be fat(lol).

But to me,its a doule-edged sword on whether you were harsh or not.

I wouldnt have left if she was good looking. I guess the moral thing was to stay and acknowledge her.

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Thanks for that k-loc.

The thing is that I really don't have a problem with bigger women... That is not the issue here. My problem was at the fact that she blatantly lied about her appearence. To the point that I didn't even recognise her despite standing feet apart!!

I do feel bad now though....

Thankfully I never had a girl lie to me about her looks. But if the girl was not even close to what her pictures looked like I would walk as well. As I don't like being lied to and deceived, and if a girl is going to lie about her looks what else is she going to lie about?

Walking away and not meeting her IS acceptable as she lied. Put it this way she lied and if you did meet firstly you'd be accepting her lie and secondly you'd be lying to yourself. I'll also add that she'd probably not meet you if you'd done the same sort of thing to her.

Many many years ago I was in a similar situation and it's not nice. You do learn to qualify better before meeting. I hate to use this as a generalisation but generally fat girls tend to sound great on the phone.

Of course the looks not matching the photo can work in your favour. I once arranged a date with a 7 at best and when we met she was close to a 10.

And online.

she lied ... you had every right to split.

but you could have talked to her about her lies.... i like to confront people

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I'm in 2 minds about confronting people.

The PRO side.

Get's your frustration and anger out of your system
err...it might get the person to look at their behaviour and change it

The CON side.

It may be better to just laugh it off.
You're unlikely to be around the person to see if the person does change...so it's a bit pointless

yes good point !

but it's not his girlfriend or something... you can't be angry on someone like that.
there is nothing wrong with confronting people and try to teach them a lesson, of course if your inner games fucked up and your angry you should walk away.

you don't have to hang around to see if they have changed, that's their choice - helping people is ok AS Long your intentions are ok.
changing is their choice.

skypirate i have to say most of your posts are very solid !

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Compliment accepted. That's the benefit of being in my 40s with a disastrous marriage behind me and having a young daughter. I just like to offer my views and sometimes that's different from the norm here. I just hope people use whatever they think is useful.

I have to say the last 8 months of my life have been a real eye opener since getting into PU material and trying to put it into practice. It's been like waking from a 3 decade sleep after being possibly the ultimate AFC we are talking almost 40 year old virgin stuff. I still have LOTS of work to do on inner game but my understanding of girls and women this year has sky-rocketed.

Id have walked. You did the right thing.

Id have been asking myself what else she lied about!

I do find it very frustrating online when you see an initial photo - showing a sprightly, fresh faced, thin gal, only to find that on closer inspection of her other photos that her main profile pict. was obviously taken about 3 years ago before the three kids and the avid see-food diet!!!!

If you have tons of women in your life and have absolutely no problem getting women then walk away. On the other hand you could use her to practice on. It reminds me when in the show the pick up artist they went to the bingo hall to meet older women. David Wygant says you should chat up everyone. Gunwitch says when you are first starting out to not be picky, he says women are like lifting weights, you got work your way up. Start with the fatties build your way up to the hb. Talk to all women!

Fat girls are the AFCs of the female world. My experience is that they tend to be really nice sweet people and can be interesting. The more confident ones can be very funny. Some are very attuned to men and know exactly that men like wild abandoned sex and can be very adventurous despite their size.

I'd rather have a 5 who is fun and sexual than a 10 who is just a trophy on my arm. I don't mind bigger girls. Being a breast man invariably well stacked girls are usually heavier - the holy trinity (for me) is slim well stacked and a pretty face - very very rare.

Gunwitch and David Wygant are realistic which is refreshing in the PUA world. Most women will probably fall in the 7 or 8 rating at best. 10s are very rare which is why they are 10s!

This is funny - "Too fat for tennis it's time for the Dennis..."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nB-PB9dm ... B-PB9dmUoA[/url]

"Fat girls are the AFCs of the female world. My experience is that they tend to be really nice sweet people and can be interesting. The more confident ones can be very funny. Some are very attuned to men and know exactly that men like wild abandoned sex and can be very adventurous despite their size.

I'd rather have a 5 who is fun and sexual than a 10 who is just a trophy on my arm. I don't mind bigger girls. Being a breast man invariably well stacked girls are usually heavier - the holy trinity (for me) is slim well stacked and a pretty face - very very rare.

Gunwitch and David Wygant are realistic which is refreshing in the PUA world. Most women will probably fall in the 7 or 8 rating at best. 10s are very rare which is why they are 10s! "

-i like your perspective. Another thing i noticed is all these pua's claiming they get 9's and 10's all the time, but then you look at their pictures which are supose to be them with 10's and usually their only 7's and 8's pancaked with makeup.

And for real dude i love hanging out with girls of all shapes, shades, and personalities. I've hooked up with ton's of 5.5-8's, i don't limit myself. I started with mostly 5's and 6's and over time have worked my way up to 7's and 8's. Soon it will be 9's and 10's. But i will always have room for the fun 5's in my life!

Offtopic LMAO

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