There are loads of people that think trying to get women on facebook (or in any way online) is pathetic, and to be honest, I am kind of one of them maybe - well at least when you ONLY do it online..

Anyway the point is that, in my view, this is your main obstacle to overcome when it comes to meeting someone on facebook, because the minute they understand you are trying to sarge, most of them will think you are a pathetic loser and I dont blame them!

So, what happened to me is, I saw this girl who worked as a bar woman at this place (bar,restaurant,hotel) but I didn't get to meet her. I was there with the owner (he is my uncle) and we did looked at each other a few times (she's proly an HB10), but then I had to go.. I got her name and age (19, i m 22) from my uncle and found her on facebook. Its probably pretty pointless since I live in London and she lives in australia but I really want to try and at least meet her but I havent added her yet cause I want to do it properly... She s half-greek and i m greek - no idea if that could help, and i dont know if the fact she show me with the owner of the place she works is good or bad...

Any suggestions PLEASE??? I need a really good opener to add her withoul looking pathetic but I m not sure how to do this.. And what to say after that..

Thanks <3

Well first off her boss is your uncle. So if she's going to bitch then she can say goodbye to her job. Is there anything special about her? Not looks wise! Make a friendly remark about it or something, find something.

Or just say hi and something like "you work there right? Nice! So how's my uncle treating ya? "

Either way just dont worry too much.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

hehe that could be a fun opener I m not sure I want to use the "my uncle is ur boss" card she s not going to lose her job cause he knows her parents etc.. (not that she would anyway lol) but I dont know it just seems wierd!

I want something clever, non-creepy and fun!