So I found this cute girl on a dating site, I sent her a little message option thing there got saying that you wanna get to know them or what ever then they ether accept or decline it, she accepted and sent me her msn address.

So I add her to msn later on. I see her come online and I wait about 10mins before I say anything after she signs in. So I later on Say hey, she says hey whos this etc, then im like im Jo etc, and she says she has to go but will talk later, well i was getting late. So i have seen her log in to msn a few times the past few days, but when ever i send her a IM she never reply's.

What to do!!!

Hi Joz,

it looks as though she was playing games and put this one down to experience. Move on.That's a very important part in game, letting go and moving on.

Unless you're using the net/online/www to improve your conversational skills via chat you really need to view it as a means to an end. I think many people on this forum would agree that it's best to get things moved offline sooner rather than later.

Have a plan , have a process. Sit down and think what you want and what timescale you'd like. Work out how flexible you are. Set your rules and follow them. I try to stick to a 3 email rule, where I set myself the goal of getting a meeting arranged with that girl within 3 emails. This is to screen out the timewaster girls who get some sort of pleasure keeping things online only. If you haven't encountered them yet, you will.

aww really?

Cant I wait like a few days and maybe try to start a convo again?

You can do whatever you like. No one girl is worth a lot of work or hassle. From what you wrote I'd move on