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I only add guy that i knw or that r cute and yur neither,s0 dnt b0ther 2 friend request me

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From: Life Is Too Short To Be Too Serious?
Date: Dec 14, 2009 5:44 PM



I just wanted to say I thaught you looked gorgous and had a wanderfull smile. I was going to add you my friend list but i'm having second thoughts we seem to be too much alike... do you get along with people your age/younger/older?



lmfao good rejection right there haha. That's one for the memory banks haha.

Yes it is quite funny. I think it's because it's so direct. Coming from a girl it's unusual to get anything other than a vague indirect response.

Did you reply to that? I'd recommend her a spellcheck application.

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Seems like a normal response to me lol. Most of my online rejections have been similar to this, if not the usual no response.

Lately I've grown tired with online sarging, maybe its the bitchy rejections like this... dismissal over the internet always seems to come 10x faster than off, because its soo much easier.

Thanks LaVitaèBreve,

I forgot that it is easier for people to be more rude and inconsiderate over the net. Lack of face to face interaction and the anonymity I suppose. It's rare that people are ruder in person. Maybe I've been lucky in my online adventures. To be honest a direct rejection is easier to deal with then some vague half hearted reply which can be interpreted either way. I think I've only had one very quick very direct rejection over the net - some woman did a lengthy pompous email reply to an opener which had one fairly tame Neg in it. I thought about replying to her just to 'get even' then realised she wasn't worth the time and effort.

I think you have to accept rejection as part of the process. Though I have to admit having a string of rejections and disappointments in a short period of time can knock your confidence.

Thats the exact reason. You can say anything you want to anyone on the internet.
In the cyber world everyones Chuck Norris lol.

That's a golden quote. I just quoted it..

But it's very true. And for some reason it makes some game a bit more natrual, (content wise), and you can think about your responce longer. So as a simple training to think more about what you say: can be very nice.

However the real fun really begins in real life, and people should not be sucked up into cyberspace. I mean in the end what's more fun... cybersex or a good ol' jump in the bushes. I think this could be a 100% poll.. hehe =)

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"In the cyber world everyones Chuck Norris" Even the women!

The biggest 'danger' of the net is not ending up meeting bunny boilers, bores or beasts but it staying online.

very true. I do want to meet some girl I've been chatting with for a week now.. but she's too shy. She DOES like me though... a lot. xD

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Sadly it looks as though that will fall into the cyber friends zone the bizarro world version of the LJBF but worse.

I'm very aware of that... yes

But well we're kinda sexually teasing now. And also she has said she wants to meet up soon. She has a week off and said it WILL happen now. I was fine with it of course..

AH well. Now gonna hi-jack the topic here. Sr Mr. Topicstarter! =P

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