You realize she would have texted you beforehand during the day to confirm times, she probably wanted to confirm that you're DTF, get your head out of your ass and go look for your balls, if she was with the husband and kid and wanted just some fun with a guy for one night and here you come with your busy life knowing full well she only has a small window to see you and you're harder to meet than Justin Biber!
if she offered you some road head would you be like "Nah gurl I'm driving, I'm not falling for your shit tests"
if she said, "Come over the kids with the ex-husband tonight, I'll cook us something "
you'd be like " Nah woman, I'm a grown as man and I can cook for myself"
Not everything is a shit test