Started dating again online after ending a 5 year relationship. I do decent on there, but theres a couple situations i run into that i can sense are problems but i don't know how to solve them! I think maybe it's me or the add nature of online dating where chicks become distracted by other prospects on there. Anyway...
Issue #1 - poor communicators
I don't know if it's because their english isn't fluent but some women contact ME first but barely communicate and things seem to go nowhere. Usually i move to exchanging numbers after establishing some basic rapport, but with these women i don't tend to even get that far! Here's an example of convo, it ends where she stopped replying. I normally don't compliment girls until later but i complimented her because she complimented me.
anntualeCol10/20/2018 9:32:15 AM
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SerMattofMississauga10/20/2018 9:48:35 AM
Thank you for the compliment Anntuale. So what do you like to do to relax and unwind in your free time?
anntualeCol10/20/2018 9:52:06 AM
I like go gym especially in mornings , watch tv and go out with friends
SerMattofMississauga10/20/2018 9:56:33 AM
That sounds good, what are you up to this weekend?
Friends bdays , so how is going this web site for u
SerMattofMississauga10/20/2018 3:46:58 PM
It's ok, I've only been on here for about a week. What about you? You have really nice eyes btw.
The jist of these convos is me doing most of the talking and they seem to get bored.
I had a girl do a shit test/hoop on me but i didn't know how to break that barrier so i acquiesced and it died off right then.
she suggested instagram exchange i said i don't usually use that why dont we exchange numbers. then she listed a list of poorly spelled requirements lol. then i said ok i can add u to instagram and after that she seemed to loose interest completely.
this was her list:
We have to meet on a secular social media app... fb messanger or instagram for example.
We must exchange a minimum of 3 pictures.
We have to have at least one video chat before we meet.
Sex is off the table until we form a bond and there is potencial for a future.
And finally, you must properly prepair yourself hun, becausevafter meeting me you'll never be the same