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PostPosted: Fri May 29, 2015 10:00 am 
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i have a problem with tinder which is that i get no likes .
i have structured my pics properly .
i am good-looking , and still early get anything from there..
what can i do ?


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PostPosted: Fri May 29, 2015 1:08 pm 
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Impossible to answer you without more details man.

Put some effort into your question.

Off hand, change your pics. Tinder is totally looks based.

No likes means your pics suck.


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PostPosted: Fri May 29, 2015 1:29 pm 
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Here is a draft of a post I have been working on, here is the section on good pics, enjoy:

STEP 1) – Obtain good pictures – Your pictures are the key to Tinder (and dating online in general for that matter). If you were to pretend you’re a girl swiping through Tinder, the pics are the only thing to suck you in the guy’s profile, so you better be sure you have gone one step beyond what 99% guys fail to do. Most guys are all lazy and use hideous pictures. This is our edge that should be taken advantage of.

These are some of the blunders you are probably guilty of yourself:

• Poor style & grooming
• Bad quality pictures
• Weird facial expression
• Bad context

Poor style & grooming – You do not get a 2nd chance to make a good 1st impression, especially when it comes to online dating, ruin that 1st impression and you’re toast. So, make sure you dress your best. However, it is important to make it look like you have not got dressed for the purpose of online dating, make it look natural with how you dress 80% of the time. If you dress lazy most of the time, change this. This tweak will benefit you in ways that go beyond online dating. Try to always look good. Same goes for personal hygiene and grooming.

Bad quality pictures – If you have taken pics from a device that fits into your pocket, then you probably are setting yourself back. I asked a friend who owns a DSLR camera and I was amazed at the picture quality. Cameras on cell phones are getting better and better these days but they still fall short of a professional camera. If you don’t know anybody with a DSLR camera, you can go to Craigslist and hire someone to follow you around for pretty cheap. Another alternative would be to get a few buddies to all chip in for a sweet DSLR camera. I know this seems like a pretty penny but the rewards will pay dividends in the long run with lots more dates whilst every other guy is stuck using their camera phone selfies.

Weird facial expressions – I amazed how people are not oblivious to the creepy facial expressions they have as their profile picture. One of the best things to do is to copy what girls do and to take about 50 photos per pose. THEN, pick the ones that have the best micro differences. Spend a good amount of time looking at your pretty face and try to look for flaws and do what you can to solve them. Use a free online image editor called http://www.pixlr.com to cover your flaws. If you have some acne, watch this tutorial to know how to edit the blemishes. If you have yellow teeth, watch this tutorial to whiten your teeth etc. Whatever the flaw, there will probably a tutorial of it somewhere. There is no shame in doing this, girls edit their pics all/most the time anyway!

Bad context – something else that a lot of guys just don’t get is that they don’t think about the context of the picture and what that it is sub-communicating. For example, 5 pics of you with a beer in your hand only conveys that you’re an alcoholic. Selfies of you with your shirt off & tensing your muscles conveys that you’re an overcompensating narcissistic gym rat. This will hurt you even if you were to nail my other pieces of advice above. Try to think about it. If you are an ambitious travelling adrenaline junkie. It makes sense to convey this with pics of yourself bungee jumping on your travels or something, you get the idea.

This should get many more matches/likes assuming if have the fundamentals like not being over weight and dressing like Edward scissor hands

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PostPosted: Fri May 29, 2015 1:34 pm 
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^^ OP - listen to the fella above...

He's our resident Tinder expert ;)


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PostPosted: Fri May 29, 2015 3:01 pm 
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Post your pictures man.

I think you're seeing the pictures through a masculine eye and not the feminine eye. A masculine eye is scanning your looks first. A feminine eye is scanning how defined your character is within the photo.

Post your pictures. I'll tell you which ones to use and which ones not to.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 02, 2015 1:18 am 
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i have a problem with tinder which is that i get no likes .
i have structured my pics properly .
i am good-looking , and still early get anything from there..
what can i do ?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 02, 2015 1:26 am 
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Post your pictures man.

I think you're seeing the pictures through a masculine eye and not the feminine eye. A masculine eye is scanning your looks first. A feminine eye is scanning how defined your character is within the photo.

Post your pictures. I'll tell you which ones to use and which ones not to.
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ENJOY IT GUYS :)


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2015 3:26 am 
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I read an article online about tinder. It helps to have as many good pictures as possible. You can probably look up online how to take a good selfie. To sum up what I've read you need to take the picture in natural light, and at an angle. And take as many pictures as possible.

Additionally if you can take a pic on the beach with your shirt off it shows your muscles without looking like a narcissist. And if you know someone with a dog, or have one, take a picture with the pet to show you like animals. Take a picture with a group of friends to show your social, and a picture doing something interesting to show you can be fun.

Lastly taking multiple pictures can help so you have things to choose from. Good Luck!


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 14, 2016 7:15 am 
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Here is some tips, unlucky Tinder man.

First, make sure you've posted your normal pics (probably sunny pics ) on Tinder, most young lady gives their likes to sunny man. Editing the photo before you post it on Tinder, I mean, use Bokeh on the rest area of your photography.

Secondly, show some humor. Woman loves a man of humor. Maybe you can try on some funny texts or siggy on your photos using Photoshop Watermarks, like Emoji. Just show your sense of humor, you will find someone likes you and get along well.

Good Pic Example:
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Or like this:
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2016 1:05 am 
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2nd pic is corny, if you dress good have a friend take a picture of you outside daytime. Even with 1 picture you'll be getting Tinder matches. The 1st pic is okay for a 2nd or 3rd pic but 1st pic has to how your face clear as day. If you need ideas look at model pictures here is an example:
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You get the idea


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 1:18 am 
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i have a problem with tinder which is that i get no likes .
i have structured my pics properly .
i am good-looking , and still early get anything from there..
what can i do ?
As has been stated numerous times in this forum and others, women on the internet dating sites are:
1. Attention whores with no intention of ever meeting anyone
2. Have delusional expectations, e.g. the man must be: ambitious but not materialistic...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hql_8lPuNJA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hql_8lPuNJA Hey, her lack of education and any meaningful talent shouldn't get in the way of her laundry list.
3. Women just passing the time by flipping some pictures.
4. Pathological at avoiding guilt and avoiding taking responsibility for their sexuality. Tinder is a hookup website. Women online are there to hookup. Yet, their protestations, "not here for sex or a hookup," are a reflection of that pathological avoidance of responsibility.

Heaven forbid one of them responds to your match on Tinder, because let the mind games begin.

As fellas have in this forum said so many times, girls do not take online dating seriously. You shouldn't either. Your profile is no doubt cool the way it is. They won't/can't read it anyway. Cheers.


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