Hi guys m sarging this girl on facebook. Started off by saying tht "i think ive seen u somewhere.. Did u participate in (xyz) event .... ??" Mostly she's been replying wid very brief answers like "Yes...NO... Thnx...Yea bla bla bla happens..." with a "I dont talk to strangers" bitch shield. We have about 2-3 msgs per day after she replies she gets offline.

Anyhw its almost a week now n i felt our conversation was too brief wid her responding casually n a bit opening up. So i tried to escalate a bit by getting a bit funny.

(I talked in my native language so below is just an English translation of wat we talked)

ME: Do u always speak so less or r u suffering some kind of fever these days ??
HER: Do u always speak that much?

ME: Not always but mostly. BTW talking more is not harmful. U shud speak a bit more. It will exercise the muscles of ur mouth too.. Just a free tip rehearsal (vowel sounds) "oo...eee.." 15 times at nyte.

(I used this one before to wich tht gal burst out laughing. Somehw this one didnt find it funny i guess)

HER: U dnt knw me uptill now.. I also get angry very quickly... N this thng u just said i didnt like it at all. N one FREE ADVICE i give u dnt waste ur time here..

Now honestly this was too rude for me to bear n it kinda ruined all her image in my eyes. But i still kept along n said

ME: "Look i just want to talk to u...as a frnd... N the fact tht u r talkin to me uptil now tells me tht even if u dun like me..but u dun dislike me either
Btw thnx for ur free advice. I'll definitely luk upto that "

to wich she replied with a THUMBS UP emoticon.

So my questions are:-
1. Shud i continue to sarge her (thinking tht it was a bitch shield) or is she really a bitch n leave her for gud ??
2. Is there any way to tackle this kind of a bitchy behaiour ?? (Coz ive experienced it before too in INFIELD sarging)

Any help wud b great guys

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ADDITIONAL INFO:

--> i live in a Muslim country n this girl is also a Muslim. But she is tht modern type who are comfortable wid having bfs. As far as i knw she already had (n still has) a bf.

--> Speaking of wich she told me tht "I already have that special guy (BF) in my life so i dont need any one else". So she was responding to straight questions like "U like (xyz) .. Why ?? Why not.. "

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That was worst "online sarge" I have ever seen.

Stop being creepy and adding girls on facebook. The dynamic is wrong and you're talking to girls that are sexually unavailable. How can I tell she is not sexually available? By her responses, that's how.

Download the tinder app. Download the POF app, read some game material. Find some proven openers and do it properly. You are more likely to find girls that are SEXUALY AVAILABLE this way.

Sorry to be harsh. But your messages to her don't even make sense. There is no flirt element to it. The words "you should" should always be exiled from your vocabulary when it come to chatting up girls.

There is a lot of work to do. You just creeped out some girl you don't know on Facebook, probably worse than the 1000 other guys that are messaging her.

Move on from this girl. Learn from this.

Type into Google "how to pick up girls" and start from step 1 like the rest of us.

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Thank u for replying but i guess there are some misunderstandings here... So m gonna address them one by one n see if u still have the same answer. Wud really appreciate if u reply again.
I didnt add her on facebook. I just msged her n thts how I myself n some of the PUAs i knw have sarged girls on facebook.
There was a reason i posted another comment named "Additional Info" coz i knew this wud come up.
So these "dating" apps are not so common in my country since its a Muslim country (as i said before).
The only gals i find on these apps are from Europe or America (1000 miles away). I was luking for some one i cud hook up wid after getting her so no point of using these apps. [/quote]
Trust me ive known Game for a year now n practically applied it as well (though i accept my success rate is not tht gud as it shud ve been but there r other factors to it wich r not of concern)

So the problem here is Muslim girls (wich u myte knw a bit) r very conservative n reserved by nature. n these pua openers u r telling, believe me, I've tried many of them. like "Hey u luk like the gal frm (xyz) mall last weekend where a guy hit on u n ur mother beat him ..." (i guess one of Neil Strauss's modified openers - read it somewhere). Any hw these "COCKY FUNNY" openers haven't worked for me, which i think probably r way too forward for the gals here. Also there's a lot issue of approaching gals here IN FIELD (coz of Muslim society) so facebook is a place where every chode n a key board jock is msging the girls.

Anyhow From my observation, one of my frnds got success n the way they did was asking a girl by msg on similar terms like "Hi i saw u on (xyz) event...bla bla bla..." ... n even in some cases simply a "HI" , get her to start talking n then move on to flirting. (BTW he's still dating tht gal now a days ) So i tried to follow the similar trend.

Still i think i got her to open her up n discussing her personal life like "i like this etc..." gave her a situation n she said "i wud do this". Normally if a gal is not interested she doesnt even reply she just sees it ("SEEN AT ..) n ignores it.

NOTE tht while i've tried it on foreign gals n they r much more responsive atleast they reply even if they dun want to talk to U getting the point ??

Saying tht i hope u understood some dynamics here N if u still have some thots on this (or any thots) i'd really appreciate.

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So how are you friends with these girls on Facebook? Because, if you would of met these girls in real life , they wouldn't be so short with you..

We posted at the same time. I understand that things are different in a Muslim society. Maybe there is Muslim dating websites there?

You're learning game. Which is very much a non Muslim type of meeting women. So I gues the ultimate answer is to move country if women are important to you. I know it's easier said than done. But what else you gonna do?

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Actually we r not frnds either on fb or in real life. It was kind of a random try, though i do knw this girl frm a mutual frnd of mine..but he too wasnt very close wid her they were only class fellows in school i guess..
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As for moving out m trying but its not like sarging doesnt happen here. Only difference is u r either an expert to sarge or u r not.. theres no intermediate stage.. specially cold approach is hell lot of a problem bcz of the stereotypes u myte hve heard of like "her brother trying to kill u to regain his sisters honour".
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Tht being said i was trying my chances on fb. An acquaintance of mine does Cold Approach too..but tht needs a lot of balls n often times he almost got beaten. I m not upto tht level yet. So i thot better give a try on fb meanwhile...

I do appreciate ur reply though thnx man

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That's not good man. Just think how creepy the dynamic is to that.

Muslims countries reproduce somehow. What are they doing that you're not doing ?

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Girls here dont add people (even their bfs) on Fb bcz they have their family members on FB too. So obviously they dun wanna let them knw abt it. PM is something which is totally private. There r some exceptions like the Elite class, they r more modernized n western so some families r comfrtable wid their daughters/ sisters havoing male frnds so u can blend in the Male Friend Category. That class is very limited though.

As for this particlualar girl, shes not that religious tht she wudn't talk to guys. She told me she already had a bf n also she was replying (wich gals dont do if they dont want or are religious). My personal assumption is she was either seeking validation to boost her ego (n not interested in frndship) or either i fucked up in sarging her.
Well, there r some thngs but these require a lot of balls (since the consequences can b great if u fuck up).
First, they have the skill of Identifiying the Target. Lets take the scenario of a Mall. So they wud see a girl alone, follow her for like 10 mins n make sure she's not wid her family. Once they r sure they'll go in.
N when they approach they dun go straight in. They walk beside her n speak so tht no body notices . e.g holding a phone in their hand so it "appears" tht they r talking on phone. N once they get an IOI they'll start talking normally (coz talking to a girl if they knw each other is not a big deal).

Another platoform is ofcourse FB n some socializing apps like "Badoo", "We Chat". One of my frnd said he found a girl from these apps. N finally there r universities/colleagues. This is where i sarged the most n applied Game skills. The gud thng about it is tht u have gurantee tht there r no parents. Only ones r the male guys, bfs which u can hanndle if u knw the game.

I m facing difficulty mostly in the COLD APPROACH. No clubs to hang out so only places r Shopping Malls, some Cafes, bookstores etc but mostly girls come wid their family to these places.

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So m actually posting a video link to give some idea of the dynamic here. This guy, though, managed to sarge a girl but u can easily see the height of social awkwardness by looking at the people behind.

Give it a watch if u have some time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AHT8E6bY5to

( BTW M not frm India but dynamics r even poor in my country)

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You have -1000000% chance. A girl sucking a watermelon through a garden hose is more likely to happen then you ever getting with this girl. It's funny you think you have a chance

Give up and move on.

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This is so bad i'm actually considering this to be a troll post.

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Did u actually read all my posts on this topic ?? I bet if u were in my environment u wudn't do shit.

However u were actually right in the first comment. I was about to say bye to her myself but i guess she sensed it somehow.. n stopped replying afterwards...

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I bet if I was in your country 100 females would have been executed for adultery

just kidding. that was a bad joke.

How would you normally meet girls?

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Lolz.. tht might actually come true. But wid u being executed wid them as well... just joking man.. :p u dun get hanged for dating...
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Mostly through social circle. Now a days m trying online sarging.
Btw tht girl did reply but ive decided to move on. she always gives vague answers n bitching abt how shes tired of repelling people n hw she doesnt like to talk to people.. if this bitch really wanted wat she said y wud b she keep replying me ??

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