I just started doing what it said and got a girl to want to meet me right away.

Now, the problem is.... she's not hot and I know a lot of people downtown and I don't want to ruin my reputation by going with someone that's not hot (to say the least). Lol.

I have a few questions about Tinder, though.

CHarders PM'ed me one of his recent profiles (I hope he doesn't mind me posting it), and it looked like this...

Message if you meet 1 or 7 of the criteria...

Lives: boldly
Drinks: aggressively
Loves: unapologetically
First word: gold
Siblings: 1
Pets: all things furry
Personality: preferred
Hygiene: required

Now, when I use Tinder, it doesn't let me have spaces between the lines, so mine would look like this...

Message if you meet 1 or 7 of the criteria... Lives: boldly. Drinks: aggressively. Loves: unapologetically. First. word: gold. Siblings: 1. Pets: all things furry. Personality: preferred. Hygiene: required

Do you guys have this problem?

Also, what do you say when a girl asks, "tell me about yourself?" Should I just say my job, where I'm from, etc.?

I just said "Born in Florida. Work in real estate. Born in March." and "Like to go out"

and she said "that's it?"

Is there something that I'm missing? Is she asking for my personality or something like that? My whole life story? Some kind of history that will make her comfortable meeting me? What should I tell her (preferably honestly) that will make her more comfortable meeting me? What do these female types require to know about a guy before they are comfortable meeting him?

What are some good noninvasive questions to ask a girl on Tinder (or any online site) that is not boring and asked a million times?

Not... what do you do for work?

The types of noninvasive questions that build rapport so she will feel comfortable meeting you.

Can we list some great examples? I know I will only need a few to get mad pussy.

And how do I keep a conversation "light," without getting too deep. This is important and I don't know how to do it yet. Can someone help me?

Also, can anyone suggest good openers for the site fling.com? I have been using the "I'm amazing - you ?" for Tinder, but fling is a little more direct of a site.

And I have also noticed that the "I'm amazing - you ?" doesn't seem to be working too well on POF. What intros can you think of for that site? (or maybe I should just stick to it)