So me and this girl both like eachother on Tinder(Similar to POF) which allowed us to msg eachother. She seems to be into intellectual humor. So im lookin for a short, clever way to number close or meetup. She lives 2 miles away according to the app. Thought about one more exchange, possibly say something about a pic. Not much to work with tho, except a pic of her dressed like pickachu, im asumin ng for Halloween. Help me out.

Me: You playing the Tinder drinking game?

Her: Don't know what that is

Me: It's where you LIKE hot people, then have a drink each time they message you. If so, take two shots ...

Her: If so I'd be wasted everyday for looking in the mirror

Me: Lmao, clever...must be the alcohol talkin..

Her: Nope just my sober clever self

Possibly, "Ok Pickachu, lets meetup for coffee and get one of those vanilla bullshit things, txt me xxx..... a time thats good for you."...or the same but without implying that she txt me, and just setup the meetup via tinder

Hold off for now..

Your whole chat is poor..

Just send her this:

YOU- " I suck at this texting thing, (obviously), Let me asking you a question..READY?"

HER- "Sure.."

YOU- "If I was alone with your best friend, what good and bad points would he/she tell me about your character traits? "

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Number closing on there is easy. Getting a number that leads somewhere is more challenging. You can't go for it too soon or you're creepy and you can't go for it too late otherwise the attraction fades. I normally go for it within the first messaging but you have to read your situation. I've had both workout. It's a whole numbers game. Enjoy the ones that stick. Don't get held up on the ones that don't. If you run out of matches of people in you're area go on Facebook and like more things.

You need to get you're chat down. You're relying on her too much to keep the conversation going. Lead the conversation. When I first start chatting I lead it in such I know what ways they will know what they most likely are going to answer. Direct the conversation so you're heading somewhere instead of twitting you're thumbs waiting for her to answer.

It's not difficult to number close on tinder!

I do it by moving the girl from tinder to SPAM, because it's still a texting app. They feel more comfortable this way.

I'm getting a lot of numbers just by being funny and by building a bit of comfort.

I found a simple opener that worked well on every girl I tried on tinder

"Congrats! You have pretty good taste"

That's it. I always get LOLs with this opener.

Once opened, I make jokes about her messages and if she doesn't start to ask questions about me, I start do ask questions about her. 2 questions, 1 funny or interesting comment about her answers.

Sometimes, after a while, she will ask you to move to SPAM. This is very good. You've got her interested.

Other times you're going to have to make the move. I always use the line bellow:

"You passed the anti-stalker test, congratulations! I think its safe to give you my number (XXX-XXX-XXXX); text me something funny on SPAM so I know its you."

I'm not the author. Credits to tallguy, who posted it in theattractionforums.com.

Girls always respond very well to this line.

Usually, I wait 2 days to make this move. But it can take more or less time depending on how interested and comfortable you feel she is.

Hope it help!

Cheers