Hey guys,

Can someone please tell me how am I doing with my text message and what am I doing wrong with this text.

I got some of the lines from this forum.

This is the start of the text----

me: (her name)!!

5:27
me: I see u stunting on okcupid!

Wed, 11:05a
she: LOLOL and I see creepin' on my page! haha

Wed, 11:25a
she: I swear everyone is on that thing

Wed, 11:26a
she: that and tinder

5:27
me: Lol yea I signed up like a day ago. How is it?

Wed, 11:48a
she: I get ridiculous messages. don't get catfished, (my name)!

Wed, 12:05p
me: Im like damn ur a pro u got mad pictures on there. you should delete your default pic doe

Wed, 12:11p
me: Naha ill try not too

5:27
she: WHY?!?? I look ugly in it?!?

Wed, 12:15p
me: Lol nahh u look cute. I'm testing out some lines to use on cute girls. Tell me some good messages that you received

Wed, 12:17p
she:DON'T use that line. I hate when ppl message me with that. So many ppl use it. It's unoriginal and makes the girl feel self conscious LOL

5:27
she: just be a gentleman and compliment the girl

12:23p
she: comment on something you guys have in common

Wed, 12:23p
she: work your (my name) magic! LOL

Wed, 12.23p
me: Really?! Alot if people use that?

Wed, 12:26p
me: Compliments whack thou.

Wed, 12:27p
me: Did u ever meet up with anyone?

Wed, 12:27p
she: lol then think of something witty to say

Wed, 12:46p
she:I think my fave was "I didn't know heaven let angels make an okcupid profile" Something along those lines

she: yeah like 3 and it was all a fail. they didnt look like anything like their pictures

Wed, 12:49p
me: Ohhh damn thats bad luck

Wed, 1:10p
me:Lets meet up you can be my first okcupid meet up

Wed 110p
me: And yea that's a pretty good line

me: I'm working on some time sensitive information here n im getting distracted

Wed, 1:13p
she: LOLOL do your work instead of focusing on browsing through okc

Wed, 2:17p
me: Lol nah its not even like that. I'm looking for a serious relationship

Wed, 2:27p
me:I thought okc stood for okc thunders for like the longest time

Wed, 2:31p
she: awwww that's so cute you're looking to settle down. good job chai! don't be like the playa playas

Wed, 4:46p
she: hahaha yeah word me too, they have the same abbreviations

Wed, 9:44p
me: Cute doesn't get laid! I was expecting "OMG ffuck me already" kind of response

Wed, 9.45p
me: Get me*

The fucking slang and horrible 'dis' and 'doe' are awful... Message and text coherently. Chicks like people who can spell and carry on a conversation properly.

Sounds like you actually had her playing along with you until you mentioned you were looking for a relationship. Stay away from that one. Even though it wasn't directed at her specifically, it's sorta like asking a girl to be your girlfriend before you've been on a date with her.

If she's not looking for that, she's out and you're no longer an option - just like that.

It seemed like a conversation between two friends until that last line you completely changed frames on her all of a sudden. You need to pick a frame and then escalate within that as opposed to the Jekyll and Hyde, were friends, but now I'm gonna drop this sexual thing on you

ok cool. thanks for the feedbak much appreciated

so does that mean when i asked her to meet up with me as a first okc meet up and she ignored it. it was not a big deal?

If she ignored it and then kept talking to you, then yeah - just pretend it didn't happen, build more interest and try again a little later.

thank you all.

CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW TO DELETE MY INITIAL POST?

much appreciated.