So I posted things from their profile that will give you the information needed about them while removing names and what not. Below that you will notice I posted what I would send them as a first message, but I have not actually emailed these girls yet. Why? Because I'm hoping to get a better understanding/advice on what to actually say since my response rate in basically 2%.
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Girl 1's profile:
About Me:
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Hello, my name is xxxxxx
I love to draw, read books, and watching scary movies
i have 5 tattoos and i love them
my favorite music is screamo, dubstep, and honestly almost everything although i don't like rap very much, i go my friend's concerts and his band's name is Tomorrow The World and I love them very very much
First Date:
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My first date was awesome, we went to the movies then went to sizzlers then we went home and talked and hung out.
Date wise i would rather stay home and watch movies then go out and having to get all fancy lol
This is what I was thinking of sending her:
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Honestly I have no idea what to write that would guarantee me a response. I'm so horrible at online game that I pretty much never get a reply so any advice on this one would be greatly appreciated.
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Girl 2's Profile:
About Me:
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Well i really would love to find that someone. I love kids they are so amazing and would love a family one day. I love photography as well and hope to one day start my own business doing photography. I want a guy who will not judge me and will accept me and love me for me. Also a man that will fight for me and protect and take care of me and support me in what i want in life who wont try to change me into someone im not. Tell me why i should date you
First Date:
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Surprise me im really up for anything
First Message Idea:
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I was thinking of something alone these lines: "Hmm... How about you tell me why I should date you and if I'm interested I'll answer back." - Not really sure, but it seems kinda cocky to me, maybe to cocky?
I was also thinking of varying the ending to something more funny/better but that was the first thing that came to mind.
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Girl 3's Profile:
About Me:
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I'm working full time getting ready for school next semester and figure I'd enjoy some male company outside of my social circle. I'm just looking for friends right now open to more though. I like going on drives, guns are fun, but so are movies
I'm a rather bubbly girl and I'm usually alot funnier but it's late as I write this.
First Date: Nothing Listed.
Message Ideas:
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I was thinking of something like "After a long debate I decided that even though your profile is horrible, that you seemed like an interesting person and decided I would message you anyways. Hi my name is Brandon."
Again I'm not really sure what to say exactly so I'm just giving out examples of what I would say before actually sending them in hope's of getting a better of understanding of what to send for the first message to the girl. Please give me some advice.
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