Ok guys I’ll try to be quick

-Online sarge with a girl that lives 1.5 hours train ride away.

-Instant connection and chemistry not much “game” only some role playing and loads of funny and interesting convo

-2 weeks later we meet and go away on a weekend which was fab. Kissed within an hour, night was wild! Loads of talking and connection, fab conversation, clear sky nights, went away on the car. Basically the perfect weekend.

-Never had any sort of talk as to where this was going, she didn’t bring it up and thought I should avoid given that the distance would instill pointless doubts in her head

-After that weekend we’re texting daily, interest is obvious, suggested her to meet again after a week for the following weekend (the 2nd weekend after the original we met) but she said “that sounds really fun but I'm really busy buying stuff for the new house" (a valid excuse)

-It’s been a full week after that again and even though I’m dropping hints to meet again and trying to get the conversation to arrange a concrete plan I feel she’s somewhat avoiding it. She keeps texting me though and shows interest generally and I’m in confusion.

She probably is genuinly very busy with job and new house. The advice I need is on how to handle this because we haven’t met ever again after the first fab weekend and frustration is starting to kick in.

I’m thinking:

a) ask her when does she think she’ll be free again (little bit devaluating) and if she gives no definitive response just think about moving on. When there is a will there is a way... she would've made time by now

b) Keep the texting and chatting as it is and see what happens. Pushing for a meet up might drive this busy girl away.

c) Reduce considerably my amount of interest shown and see if she’ll react

d) (your suggestion different from the above)

I really like her so i'd like the best advice to get this going somewhere

Thank you and sorry for the length

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I'd go B or C.

B could lead you into a hurtful cycle of chat with no reward though or it could get you what you are after.

C could freeze her out and have her coming back for more or it could end things.

Basically man she lives 1.5 hours away that's why she isn't round your house every night.

Go back online / to the club and get 10 more. You'll feel much better.