Posted this to JSmooth's thread, but no replies in a few days, so maybe someone else can help me out...
I recently set up a profile on OKcupid (using as much advice from this site as I could) and I obviously did a pretty good job on it because I get a lot of page views and a few girls have even messaged me (initiated contact). A little about myself/my situation: I am pretty good looking, somewhat in good shape and I'm 23. Still new to the game though. This girl, HB8, messaged me and I played the cocky/funny card. She was basically doing all the work for me. It was too easy. She IMed me and we got to talking. She told me that she is really interested in me, and blah blah blah, loves giving head, swallowing and anal. But shes not a skank (ya right) and wont screw w/o dating. Obviously I want this chick in a bad kinda way, but I'm in the US Army, in Afghanistan and wont be home for about 30 more days.
I got a number close and I can call her from here (free call centers on base) and she cant call me(which is good, I'm afraid she seems kinda needy/seeks validation). But I want to put it in her butt soooo bad. She knows I wont be home for a month, but my question to you is, how can I keep this girl interested and wrapped around my finger for a month with only talking to her online/a few phone convos here and there?

Unfortunately, the only thing you can do is to try to strike up a friendship with her in the hopes of becoming more in person. You might want to pace yourself; and set up a SPAM first date.

Move away from emailing on the dating site if possible. Phone is a good way to go, but also email and text if possible. Keep teasing her, and instead of cocky-funny, think fun and playful to keep her interested.

Girls get fed up with receiving a lot of email on there, and take breaks from the site or give up altogether.

A lot can happen in 30 days, and the bad news is that unless you are Modelesque, she is probably messaging other guys on there who are already in the same zip code. Don't do anything silly like not messaging other women. You might want to wait a few weeks before seriously pursuing online women though, as a lot of your hard work could be for nothing. You need momentum for this game to work best.

Good luck!
JPow

Yeah, thanks for the advice. I am going to keep it slow, and stick to the phone, or SPAM. I am not actually pursuing women on the site, yet. I do however get a few of them messaging me, just to see what I'm all about. Those are the only girls I'm talking to on there.

Update...I called her. We had a good convo. 30 mins total. I pretty much let her do most of the talking, I controlled the conversation tho. She asked a few things about me, but I didn't go into a whole lot of detail (gotta keep her wondering). She gave me a lot of IOI's on the phone. She really wants to meet me. I mentioned a few places that we should visit when I get there. I didn't talk to her for a 2 days, and she sent me a message asking why I haven't called her. This is a good sign I think, but again, not sure if she's needy or attention seeking. I don't want her to get too much attention from me.

I hope you have a burner phone or a good way to block her if you want a one night stand with her, because with her being needy she be seeking out attention/validation pretty much non stop as you may have notice and such its going to be hard as hell to get rid of her.