So I joined Plenty of fish recently and I spotted this girl, HB7 nothing super special but I thought I'd practice some game, her profile description was this:

I am 100% a girlie gamer,
I hope to find a guy that doesn't mind me beating him on a game
I thoroughly love what I do & would love someone to share that with!


I am not your average 20 something,
I don't drink or smoke...I am good enough fun without needing dutch courage...
Theres a lot you don't know about me but message and find out, I assure you it will be well worth it!
I have only ever dated men older than myself, HOWEVER I would like to see what some of you younger guys have to offer.

So anyway, I thought I'd start off with a pretty standard opener, she replied with a shit test but I think I dealt with it pretty well.


So read the convo an let me know what you think I should say next.


Me:
Hey

I know this is gonna sound super random, but I just noticed your profile and I had
to tell you that you have an incredible sense of style - compared to a lot of the
women that I've seen on here. It's like a mixture of classiness and elegance, with a
hint of casualness, which still makes you seem quite easy going, rather than a high
maintenance materialistic girl - btw if you are one of those girls, I'm already gonna have to break up with you

But beauty is common though...so I want to see how cool and interesting you really are as a person.

Tell me about something that you've never tried before, and you would love to try.

P.S.I don't mind you trying to beat me on a game, if it's a fps you'll struggle

(My name)


Her:
LOL,
First person shooters...I doubt it darling

I'm the type of girl who is high maintenance but I pay for that
maintenance



Me:
Haha you're quite funny, I think it's cool you have a sense of humour. Most girls take things so
seriously, I can't stand people like that, one of the most attractive qualities I find in a woman is a
sense of humour but anyway I said you're quite funny so you're not there just yet.

I think it's interesting how out of the whole message I sent you you only replied to questions or
statements that would portray you in a negative way (materialistic, not as good a gamer as me).
You have nothing to prove to me (her name), I genuinely would be interested to know something
interesting about, I'm not here to 'sweet talk' you or just to say hi, like every other guy on here.

So tell me something that you've never tried before and would love to try.

Me it's to climb Annapurna.

(my name)


Her:
Something about me.

I foster cats & work a lot for charity x




What do I say next? How should I escalate this?

TC

Something about me.

I foster cats & work a lot for charity x

Tease her, and your replys are way to long compared to hers try mirror her msg length

i'd say "Oh great so you're an unemployed crazy cat lady... i bet the men are beating down your door ... And since i'm a gentlemen i'll even let you pick the game i beat you at "


Then be aggressive with here, she will come back trying to talk smack about beating you in the game, since this is your 3rd msg start closing you say "challenge accepted, you better bring your A game princess!!! call me old fashioned but i can't whoop your but in "whatever game" on pof chat so text me 555-555-5555 see old fashioned

Name here for the first time

also i never give my name out untill at the end of a number close, holding back on the name makes them wonder who you are, plus it rolls right into a fun text game i have.