Alright so i've been messaging this girl on facebook, it's been going back and forth for a couple days now i've built rapport and comfort. I told her she should gimme her number and we can continue this to text

she says..
thats how you ask gimme? what if i dont want to?

and she poked me after

I can only assume this is her playing around with me and I should answer in a very sarcastic way

any ideas?

"I usually get what I want"

"Im used to getting what im after"

"believe me, you are gonna want to give me your number"


you can go less cocky if you like, but look at this as a shit test, dont show weakness/indecision/ supplication

alright many thanks man. I'm finding it so hard to recognize shit tests! i always get worked up over stuff like that. Another part of my nice guy weakness part of the game

I hear you, I was the same way.

Girls test for confidence and congruence. They want a strong man but they will make you fight for it. Once you realize that trading supplication for attraction is a fools errand and stick to your guns your game is going to go through the roof.

Well, she put you on the spot lol ... Being sarcastic will be your best way out. I would tell her "well, then I would assume you dont have a cellphone and not suggest you would give it to me again so you dont feel bad for not keeping up with the evolution of technology :p"
And thats why I do NOT ask for numbers. If attraction and confort is built correctly, she will hand you the number, no questions asked. I have met up with girls I talked on facebook without getting their number, and then they hand it to me. A phone number is a something very personal. what makes you think she wants to give you her number before actually meeting you in person, if she can talk to you on fb?!
Go on the approach and opening section and look for "how should i approach on facebook?" thread. Read it and you might get some insight. I posted openers I used, the development and their outcome. Forum members have used them and they are messaging me with positive feedback on my insights.

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"i gotta roll, there's something I want to tell you i'll give you a shout later, what's your number again?"

lol she'll be like "what, huh, my number? Um I never gave it to you?"

you can reply "No, but i detected you were trying to do so telepathically but the transmission wasn't so clear so save us both the bother and give it to me here"

Ya, never suplicate unless the girls is putting up mass IOIs and is begging u to ask. be cool, ask for the number in a real cunning way she'll like it if you dont send off creepo vibes.

Try this maybe type "818..." (whatever area code you guys live in) and she'll probably send you a "?" back. Reply with "just writing your number down, the other 7 digits please."

this is good just drop the "please" part

Agreed.

well she's from my town, went to my high school and was in a grade ahead of me. not a complete stranger at all. that's why i'm confused as to why shes trying to play hard to get, i never have this much trouble with number closing.

shes now asking why she should give me her number haha omg, making me jump through hoops I will not stand for this!

i really just want to pull out the dos equis thing and just say "because I am the most interesting man in the world"

or "you're gonna have to wait til christmas to open that gift, I'm not that easy"

freeze her out a day or two then hit her up with somethiibg random. dont ask for her number pretwnd u gotta go