That is the worst chat I ever read, it's so boring. The opener is no different to the million of other guys sending the same thing.

You would think after they stopped responding after the "do you like smilies?" Line you would perhaps scrap that line and try something else

This chat is not good enough and explains the results. Sorry to sound harsh. You should have more banter, flirting, being a challenge. Do not be boring .
Change Your messages

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This online dating transcript is a perfect example of what would work if women were logic-based and not creatures who thrive/get off on a back and forth roller emotional rollercoaster ride. They are unforgiving.

If you analyze your results after the fact, you'll find out what they want and how they want it. In doing this you sort of end up molding into the kind of aloof playful challenging mysterious confident don't give a fuck dominant persona they want.

Well, I don't know how to be challenging and flirt without coming off as being wierd. Also, how can I even analyze my results if I don't have any hard proof as to why these girls are not responding back?

You know, this is getting crazy. I am going to be 27 in a couple of months and i am still a virgin. I mean, how long does it take for a newbie like myself to get laid and get consistent dates?

Then why did alphabro suggest this to me?:

I'm going to give you a mission man. I really hope you take it seriously.

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I want you to sign online and message 50 girls with "hey! how's it going?", or something very similar. You will likely get 5 replies. Follow the structure of conversation below that I actually had with a woman I met up with same day. It doesn't matter if you think the girls are pretty or not. The point of this is to get you to the next level.


Me: Hey, how's it going?

Her:Hey, not to much just enjoying my Saturday. How about you?

Me: Yeah, the exact same.
Do you like when guys use smilies?

Her: Haha I do actually. I'm Kendall by the way... My profile most likely gave that one away. So your pretty right with Cupid I see? ( My username implies that I know cupid)

Me:Yeah I set him up with his current sweetheart. I told him all he had to do was shoot his stupid arrow at her and she would be his, but he was so nervous he couldn't aim. Anyway, we did it the old fashion way, "hey, have you met my friend cupid?" It probably worked out better that way.

Me: Is it cool if I text you?

Her: Haha I like that. Sounds like you are an excellent wing man! Yes, my number is XXX-206-XXXX


When you get the number, I want you to call her within 30 minutes. Ask her if she has a moment to talk and just ask her about her day and non-threatening or non-commiting questions. I usually do this by pulling up the girls profile while i'm talking to her and tell her i'm going to test her. I'll ask her questions about what I read on her profile. You seriously don't have to think about a thing this way and she does all the talking. Try and keep her talking.

Make sure you are the one to end the conversation. Simply say you are busy and have to leave, but you will text her later. If you sense the conversation is going well, and she will agree to meet up with you, go ahead and set up a coffee date.


Also yes I have been approaching strangers, but it hasn't been working out for me so far.

Learn how to flirt. You analyze the results by looking at what happened and ceasing to do what caused the non-response.
By working on this piece:
Even if you had a girl from online meet you out, you still need to be able to flirt, hold eye contact, be a playful mofo and all that. So, much better to learn the game out on the streets. I'm guessing you have approached a few girls but have done it hesitatingly and in a manner that you were hesitantly trying to "get" something from her, as in her approval.

I'm also speculating that you weren't expecting the interactions with the "strangers" to go well. This is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, see the girls as open and willing to speak with you ; speak with her in the same relaxed and comfortable manner that you would speak to her if she was your girlfriend.

You need to know that you've already got everything you could ever imagine and a girl would be so fortunate to spend time with you let alone get with you.

Until you truly believe this in your soul it will be a severe uphill climb. You are worthy, but you have to own this and accept this as the gospel truth.

This interaction seems to be related to the girl in question's profile when it comes to the smilies. To her it may not have looked like a random/weird question.

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It doesn't work for you, so why would it work for me? you're probably better looking than me also.

This was a recent interaction that lead to a date:

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^ legendary text exchange. OP, this is the exact nonchalant "i'm not taking myself seriously at all" DHV as a DLV that is so GOLD when it comes to getting a girl curious and into you.

It INSTANTLY AND FOREVER separates you from the 99% league of chodes she comes in contact with on the reg.

the girl says "cleaver": can't make that irony up hhah

So, let's take the situation of the first girl on Jdate who messaged me first saying "You look and sound adorable. I'd love to learn more." You guys say that the response I gave to her "Hey, how's it going? You must be a very ambitious person who is very talented in the math and sciences," was boring. So what if I instead responded with a challenge statement such as the example that Pebble gave a while back on this thread which was "you seem cool and all, but let ask you something, If I was in the same room as your BEST friend in the whole world, what would he/she tell me about you that I can't just find out by reading your profile, it's important to mention the good and the bad!"?

i'm pretty sure that would work on that particular example since she has gave you an IOI.

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Hey guys, so there is this one chick that I've been messaging back and forth with for about 3 times on Jdate. In her last message to me she ask what my first and last name is so that she can add on fb. Now, I know that when she said fb she of course meant facebook, but what if sent her a message that is a sexual innuendo saying "you want to add me to your first base?"

Why are you creating imaginary obstacles that haven't even occurred? Just type what you feel whether it may be an inuendo or not?

'fuck buddy?!!? i am nor that easy "

Just do the thins we are suggesting to you?

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I will tell you the best kept secret on Online Dating. The tip that will get you consistent flow of women like they are pouring out of a factory pipe

The tip is (be hold):

Dump the online dating crap..grow a dick, dress up and go out and hunt.

I just want to make sure I am getting the idea right.