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First, all of your pics are terrible. Fix lighting on face, take from above. No shirtless pic (you don't look jacked enough). Smile more.
Being so direct with a girl on tinder works with numbers. I once messaged 300 women the same day saying "I'll be straight up, you're cute - want to hook up ?"
I got 20 women agreeing who gave me their phone numbers (most were disgusted). Of those, at least half flaked. I met up with 4 women in the course of the next 2 days. I closed 3 of them. The 4th would have slept with me but was so gross in person I left.
The quality when you go that direct drops DRAMATICALLY.
Most recently, I slept with a new girl from tinder Saturday night, Tuesday night, and earlier tonight (Wednesday night). All 3 of them I gamed indirectly, meaning I asked to hang out not hook up then I ran my game appropriately in person. All three girls, I was on a date with for at least 3 hours before closing.
Gotta do indirect game though bro and not say all this foul stuff you're writing about.
I've been in situations where women have started getting very sexual and explicit over text. Problem with that is that these chicks get horny, enjoy hearing all the sexual stuff you tell them, then their Anti-Slut Defense kicks it into overdrive when they calm down. Now, they can't meet up with you or they're called a slut.
I wrote a book on how to game girls on Tinder and have worked with students and trained them how to game women on Tinder. They all are now consistent closers. One of my students had a Tinder 3some 2 weeks ago.
Play the game.
PM me for specific questions.
I already bought your book. saying "hey rockstar" isn't working.
And how do you message 300 girls in a day? Don't you have to wait until they match you back? Are we using the same program here?
Smile more? Okay. Why don't you tell me what you're so happy about and I'll try to copy it.
And another thing... all this online stuff is seeming to be more effort than it's worth. If you go downtown, there are supermodel quality girls by the 1000s. So why waste time trying to impress a bunch of girls that are probably going to be ugly anyway when you see them in person? But I guess it is good to cover all bases, so why not.
And while I'm at it.... CHarders, do you form any kind of emotional bond with these women? Is it always just a one-time then leave? And this goes to all the other people who seem to have some sort of polygamy sect going on.... do you plan to maintain this long term? Do you think these girls are going to want to spend their life as part of your polygamy sect? Are they seeing other people while you are seeing other people as well? And aren't you risking losing them once they find someone who satisfies them in a monogamous relationship? Is this something you can maintain long-term?
And suddenly it dawns on me what my problem is... these girls may or may not lead complex lives with all kinds of problems and intricacies and I don't really give a shit about any of that... that's why I always break down after 10 seconds of conversation... once it gets to the "empathy" part, that's where I lack... I just look at them with some deluded look like, "so are we gonna have sex yet or not?"... I think I have issues.