had some success

now I was looking at class of 2015 for my college and some people in that group post like "add me" since they are all incoming freshmen, some accept and some dont what are to increase your chances of getting accepted, as building a good network before they even start college is good

I use the greasemonkey script, unfriends to keep track

also what do you do if a girl is never on facebook chat rather than shes using facebook mobile like more and more people now
and one response, is like Haha that game only leads to one thing
Me- whats that
sexual questions

Interesting. I'm going to try this.

Tried it on 10 girls got 7 replies works pretty well

did you do this on facebook?

Will try it in like 4-5 hours, gotta get some sleep first.
Will share results (prolly noone adding me)

nevermind, not gonna do this.
Adding random girls I dont know and pulling this of feels really really uncomfortable to me.
Like, the girls shes friend with will get to know it, she will probably think I'm a creep etc. etc.

Got online AA haha

Yea tried it on POF but it doesnt work nearly as well....

i been doing it on other sites with instant chat not always as good, fb is good but the people i thought didnt know me knew me.. so its hard to tell

I think all these techniques work in variation for different people, it's all about looks online, if you have good pictures highlighting your best features, muscles/eyes/face/how much you travel etc...

You could email women anything and get a reply

I mailed 6 girls last night "Hey lush one x"

No effort at all, lush is kind of a chavvy phrase etc And I got 5 replies.

I'd consider myself a semi attractive guy, I look young for my age which works against me.

I think you have to be natural when emailing on a site like POF. I always email whatever comes to mind when looking at their pictures and profile... Such as "You're a champagne drinker then?" if a girl has a glass of it in her picture. Emailing "Monet or Picasso" when one had Art in her interests.

All the replies I get about seeming genuine and decent, and explaining how they get freaks and wierd guys emailing them.

"Are you friendly?" is a good opener though, as it can be taken 2 ways, either if they're a friendly person, or it can be transitioned into something sexual quickly.

The more elaborate the opener I think the less likely you're to get a reply, well thats from my personal experience anyway, as it seems like you're trying to hard, and probably say the same thing to everyone..

Just my 2 pence

Dude, first off let me say it's insane how easy this is to do compared to other methods. I figured I tried this while I was stuck at the office at work so I logged on FB and noticed this HB9 and also that we had no mutual friends, I remember her adding me but at the time I just confirmed the add and paid no attention to it. I always saw FB as the opposite of Myspace, it was for socializing with friends not picking up girls, man am I wrong it seems. Anywho, here's the whole chat, quite short.

Me: Hey are you friendly?

HB: Lol hi... yea I guess I am.

Me: Awesome, just checking if the personality matches the face

HB: Lol thank you??? Haha

Me: So tell me something interesting about yourself. Your welcome by the way, just making an accurate observation.

HB: I am Greek, loud, love to cook, and can belly dance hhaa

Me: Thanks for the scouting report, cool to meet some who's Greek. I find myself at the Greek Festival every year out here and I always want to ask a Greek person, how good is this dish cooked?

HB: Where do you live? Greek food is tasty and fattening lol Love it tho

Me: I live in LA, and yes it is tasty, bless the 24 hr gyms

HB: Lmaooo... I feel ya on the gym thing! And awesomeee! Never been there, but hey listen I'm at work rite now... ttyl?

Me: Sure, don't break too much of a sweat out there. Good talkin to you (girl's name).

HB: Thanks... nice talking to you too hun



The one thing I know I screwed up or feel like I did is the close, maybe I should've suggested moving it to text, I felt like she left it open to do so. Either way, I've never spoken to this girl in my life, we have no mutual friends AND she lives in Philadelphia, while I'm in Los Angeles, so I feel pretty good about talking to her again, just don't know what to do from here. I figured maybe "poke" her in a couple of days. Any suggestions? Hopefully this helps some of you out there.

Good job man. Glad to see you're going out and giving it a go. First off, you defended yourself for making an observation. That's a no no. You said, "just making an accurate observation." It appearently didn't screw anything up, but it was a DLV. However, she did give you several IOIs throughout the interaction, so she was probably interested in you before you chatted her up (the friend request from her is always a great sign, major major IOI.)

The next thing you did well making conversation and creating a rapport with her based on mutual interests. Good job on that. You definitely should have number closed her though. She did change it up a bit because the routine is designed for YOU to be the one getting off and not her, but here's what I would have said:

HB: Lmaooo... I feel ya on the gym thing! And awesomeee! Never been there, but hey listen I'm at work rite now... ttyl? (she asked if SHE would talk to YOU again. Basically hoping to get your number.)

Me:
Definitely. Do you text?

HB: Yeah here's my number XXX-XXX-XXXX

Me: Okay, I'll send you something if your lucky

or something along those lines. Good job on the first attempt though. You can defintiely go back and open her again, and just continue the routine where you left off last time. Talk for a short while about something else, and then smoothly throw the questions game in there, and you will get your number close.

Good luck man!

P.S. Just remember to cut off conversation when it's at its peak. If not she will get bored, and you won't get the number. I did this several times before I figured out what I was doing wrong.

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Thanks for the feedback. I'll be sure to clean the errors on this next time. Very interesting technique though, the reaction is interesting to say the least. Awesome work.

Thanks man!

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I love this opener, but I reckon it'd be far better in real life than online.

As 60 would say: Risk creepy!

Sometimes I aim for creepy just to get it out of the way, actually.

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