Talking with a friend who needs MASSIVE help. He's 20 and has no confidence with women because of a lack of inner game. He confided that he goes to sleep thinking that he doesn't like himself and that he's pathetic. I don't even know where to start on this. Guy has several talents that involve performing for people that girls jump on, but once he's done he switches back to his unconfident self.

I thought about it and giving him reading material just won't do the trick :/ ... Really need help with this and a gameplan is appreciated. Thanks

I am in the process of helping a similar guy out, he lacks confidence in himself but women literally love him.
The way I have gone about it is to go out with him and run game but in a no pressure kind of way just a fun thing to do in clubs way. I also gave him my copy of the game and told him to get rules of the game.

I think its something that will have to be tailored to the guy but just take it tiny steps and make sure you show them what they have achieved as they will try to overlook t and focus on the bad.

Something else that works well is make bets, for example all take a sharpie out and see who can get the most numbers written on them. Its a fun thing and because of the betting element they will get competitive, which I honestly believe is the best way to get over AA. It switches the focus from outcome to "I have got to win that money" or "Damn, I really have to do this or this will happen".

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this may work. gonna sound absolutely crazy though. type in tracy chapman fast car in on youtube. you need to make him feel like that. like he can be someone. then take him to a club.

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1st...is your friend directly asking you for help or implying he wants some? Because if he isn't then your just forcing your perspective on him. If he is then its a different story.

sometimes the best thing to do is evaluate your values. what are your values and interests. dont put too much focus on girls, stay busy and enjoying life asmuch as possible.

then this girl problem will not seem like such a menace.

slowly expose yourself more and more till u build confidence. if u game like u are learning to it will come more andmore naturally. brush off "failures" and dont even call them that anymore. think of it as the girls loss (which usually it is). it will be ok