Erection problems when having sex with a girl for 1st time

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 11:48 pm 
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I don't know where to post that, so I guess this is the best section.

My problem is that I cannot get a proper erection when I am having sex with a girl for the very first time. I guess I get anxious or something, but it has happened in 80% of the times when I was having sex with a girl for the first time. After the first 1-2 tries everything gets back to normal and I am able to fuck her properly. In relationships it's even crazier. The more time I spend with the girl, the easier it becomes to get rock hard. During my LTRs I was able to get fully erect from a simple kiss or a hug.

My erections are very hard usually. However, when I am having sex with a girl for the first time, even when I forcefully try to jerk myself and get an erection, it's still kinda soft and most of the times not good enough for penetration.

I do care about this issue, cause it might happen someday that a girl gets disappointed and spreads a rumour.

So my question would be if any of you has experienced a similar problem and how did you get over it?

PostPosted: Sun Apr 30, 2017 9:46 pm 
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In my personal experience, it was because I was masturbating too often leading up to the first time. Cut down on the porn, stop masturbating more than once or so a week and find a real-world outlet for that energy. Trust me, it will force you to go out and get what you want (i.e. real sex). Also, stop worrying about it during sex. I find that when I don't even think about it, my body does my job for me.

PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2018 2:45 pm 
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Are you on any medication?

PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2018 10:21 am 
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I am absolutely sure this is because you worry. For the first time, every man wants to make the best impressions possible. This is why we always worry. Having no erection for the first time with a girl is a terrible thing. It can ruin your whole relationship. I had that thing with a girl whom I was dating for a while. After the failure, I broke my relationship with her because of the shame. I think you can find some of the reasons why your erection is bad in this article 4 Situations When Viagra is Not Able to Help You

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