Hi. I'm having a bit of a situation here.
I'm attracted to this girl at work and I already opened her ( which was a bit frightening to me because I am naturally a bit of an introvert, not much but still...) and we more at ease with each other now. The thing is I've noticed signs of attraction from her. She smiles a lot when she is with me, she is playfull... I've already texted her before to meet up with me for some coffee and today we did.
As we were talking, she said to me that she has someone. But then she made it clear that he is not her boyfriend. I'm a bit confused right now... About that and the fact that she made it clear about him not being her boyfriend when I kind of stopped talking for a bit and stared at her not knowing what to say...
I'm all sorts of confused right now. And should I hurry or something?
Thanks, in advance, for any advice.
that's a strong IOI from her. she wouldn't mention it, if she wasn't interested in you.
keep the momentum going. ask her out for drinks after work first. more casual than a full-blown, official dinner date. bond a little bit more over a happy hour.
if the vibe is right, take her out for dinner right after. a girl gotta eat, right?